I sent this to another member some time ago and I stick by this.... The thing is... once you make a small change and stick to it, you have created a new habit and give yourself the chance to make other small changes. I read something the other day that I really liked: Aim for change, not for results. Results are very BIG picture, but change can happen in those small moments where we chose to do something different. Consistency will give you the results your looking for, but self-discipline is required. I like to set a daily goal. When I reach that goal, I feel incredibly proud of myself and that feeling alone makes me want to continue to make and reach my goals. Write your goal on a white board or in a journal, look at that goal at the beginning of your day. By the end of the day, make sure you can put a big check mark beside it with a happy face. Write about how achieving that goal made you feel. Documenting your process is a big thing that NF talks about a lot, as it is the only way we can really track change. The more goal follow through you do, the more often you will notice change for the better in your life. Remind yourself that you are WORTH the hard work. Remind yourself that while it may feel like a small change, it is a CHANGE nonetheless and small changes eventually result in BIG outcomes. Remind yourself how it feels to be proud of yourself, your hard work, and determination. So, I would start with a goal board. I would also compliment that with a goal journal. Fill it with pictures that inspire you; mantras that excite you; poetry; musical lyrics. Make yourself a mixtape that you can listen to at the start of every day- fill it with songs that get you excited about reaching your goals for the day. Most importantly, do not allow yourself to not follow through. YOU are the most important person in your life and you owe it to yourself to feel the happiness that comes from reaching your goals. You are SO worth it. Keep telling yourself that. When you feel discouraged, go back to your journal-- read how you felt about achieving your daily goals. Write about why your frustrated, then respond to yourself with a new goal and the steps you are going to take to reach that goal in your day. Have a food goal. An emotional goal. A relationship goal. A fitness goal. Everyday. You will notice achieving a small goal in these areas every day will result in you having a fuller, more enriching enjoyable life. And, these goals are all ACHIEVABLE!!!! This is my new song that motivates me in the morning! GOOD LUCK AND STAY ON THIS SITE TO STAY MOTIVATED!!!!!