shillim

I've done TKD, Hapkido, Muay Thai, Krav and BJJ. So far BJJ has been my favorite. I loved the discipline and structure of TKD and Hapkido. These are truly arts and should be considered as such. I loved the sheer brutality and practical applications of Muay Thai and Krav. Keep in mind that Krav is not a sport but rather a philosophy of survival (some Krav gyms have fight classes that teaches a decent stand up game). But BJJ, in my experience, has both the artistry and the practical applications that I really enjoy. The Russians have developed two very interesting disciplines that I would also consider, Systema (which is similar in some ways to Krav), and Combat Sambo (which has grappling and takedowns). Each of the disciplines mentioned require a great deal of physicality and will provide a great workout for your big frame. Start checking out gyms that are closest to you and go from there. If you start getting more serious about your art, you can seek out gyms that are better suited to your needs. Most gyms are adept at teaching the basics. Good luck with your journey!

HELL YEAH! Congrats! TKD is an amazing art that will teach you both discipline and focus, not to mention some sweet sweet kicks. The first time you stick a spinning back kick, you'll be on top of the world!

I agree that Krav Maga is really enjoyable and that a good training partner can make or break the experience. smashmp is correct in talking to your instructor (although some KM instructors would tell you to suck it up). Their job, in addition to giving you real world fighting techniques, is to provide a safe working environment for you (my gym always emphasizes safety in training). smashmp is also correct about talking to your training partner (do this before you even talk to your instructor). You've asked her to slow down, but did you tell her that she's making Krav less enjoyable for you? Most people I've worked with are really decent folks who will understand that they need to dial it down if you tell them why. If all else fails, you can keep stopping her in the middle of drills to critique her form and technique. Almost everyone in the starting phases have some kind of trouble with their fighting stance or telegraphing strikes. She might get annoyed enough to stop partnering up with you. Finally, start meeting new people in your class. Take the time before class to say hello and ask if they would like to work together for the day. I've made some great friends doing so.