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  1. I'm going to try to put together a higher protein (100g+, 1,800-2,000kcal) affordable diet plan for a 2 week period, primarily plant based but some fish and eggs are ok (no dairy, because one of the people I'm working on this with needs to eliminate it for a bit). Ideally I'm looking for recipe and prep suggestions, including ways to create variety with similar prepped ingredients. The thought process is that 2 weeks is long enough for variety, but short enough that the repetition becomes easy habits.

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  2. On 3/23/2023 at 8:08 PM, Jupiter said:

    Hey, Defining, how has this last month gone for you? 

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    Well, uh. I guess that's pretty self-evident. I did none of the things I talked about for 2023. 

    None. Of. The. Things.

     

    Where the actual eff did the year go.
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    I am currently posting because I'm putting off some tidying/decluttering I've committed to. I had the house to myself for a few weeks and figured I'd take advantage.... and in reality I just have @#$&ing piles EVERYWHERE. I have .....let's say 16hrs (including sleep) to at least make the piles manageable enough that they are not preventing use of the public spaces of the house. I can do that.

    But I am thinking ahead for the next year. There is SO much that's changed in 2023, and yet I'm still stuck exactly where I was. I'm honestly a bit exhausted by thinking about it. But I need to create a better space for workouts. I need to edit the kitchen so I'm willing to do meal prep. I need to modify my bed area for superior sleep hygiene. I need to figure out my shit.

    I'm not setting goals for the whole year, there's no point. I'm going to set a goal for Q1 (because my 35th bday is at the beginning of Q2): decluttering. I can't effect change in the same environment. The clutter is causing actual anxiety for me now. This is the priority. 
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    I lied, I'm going to set a goal for 2024: the year of 'No Purchases'. I'm banning myself from buying anything (net healthy groceries). I will permit myself trades, and/or treats bought with $$ from selling clutter. 

    There's so much more I could say, but really it'd just be more procrastinating. I don't even know anymore. Here's to the next 5 months.
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  3. Technically the EPOC effect exists after both aerobic or anaerobic activity - it increases in a (I believe) somewhat linear relationship to intensity. That is to say: if you're breathing hard or 'feeling the burn', you'll likely experience at least some "after burn". FWIW, you can do HIIT with bodyweight exercises. Bodyweight exercises are just as effective as any other resistance training, as long as you are following a program which uses progressive overload to increase strength over time. 

     

    However, this really shouldn't be a major consideration for a fat loss journey. Resistance training helps to preserve muscle mass in a caloric deficit and aerobic exercise will typically have beneficial effects on your cardiovascular health, but exercise has relatively little power to adjust the energy/calorie balance (even if you're working out every day).  EPOC accounts for an even smaller proportion of potential energy expenditure than the exercise itself. The most effective strategies for fat loss will mostly be diet focused, which is to say creating an energy deficit by eating fewer calories than your daily activities burn.

     

    TL;DR - EPOC is not going to make or break your success with body recomposition, but what you choose to eat absolutely can.

    Things that I WOULD pay attention to for a fat loss journey:

    - quality and quantity of sleep; 8+hrs/night is ideal for most adults

    - stress management; if you are super stressed out, your body will resist fat loss to the detriment of your overall health

    - total caloric intake; you could either try a 'slow and steady' approach at 80-85% of your TDEE, or intermittent energy restriction (eg. 2wks at 70%TDEE, 2wks at 100% TDEE, continue to alternate with regular recalculations based on your new weight/TDEE)

    - total protein intake; 0.7-1g of protein per lb of bodyweight a day is a good guideline to get going - if you carry more fat you can err towards the lower end of that range, if you are already lean(ish) then stay at the higher end of that range

    - 5-8 servings of veg & fruit/day; fiber and micronutrients are good for you

    - minimum 150min of exercise a week, ideally 2-3x resistance and maybe another aerobic workout or two

    - staying sufficiently hydrated; aim for 0.5-1oz of water per lb of bodyweight a day - err on the higher end of the range on days you're working out

     

    Good luck, and welcome to the forums!

  4. Not sure where you got the impression that all 'super bio products' are always safe or healthy, to be perfectly honest - anything that says 'super' is typically just marketing wonk, rather than a guarantee of quality.

     

    Prop 65 warnings can be a little alarmist, they require warnings at much lower concentrations than many other standards. That being said, I am always dubious of the quality control around 'medicinal mushroom' products which don't have full transparency of where they source their materials (call me paranoid). I also think that some of the benefits which are touted by mushroom products are not always backed by quality reputable research; YMMV, but I'd take it all with a grain of salt.

    You could try chocolate malt (roasted barley) as another potential coffee alternative, or even explore herbal tea options instead. 'Mushroom coffee' is typically just normal coffee mixed with the mushroom stuff in order to cut the caffeine content, so you could also experiment with just normal decaf instead (bonus: much cheaper). 

  5. On 1/25/2023 at 9:35 PM, Jupiter said:

    Hey, Defining, how are things going? 

    Thank you for checking in! I have clearly already fallen down on checking in weekly. 😄

     

    Um, good intentions are great, but without action are useless?  I spent some time last week trying to see if visiting with a therapist might be beneficial, but after several hours of reading bios of professionals in town (or with online availability) I just can't seem to find a fit which gives me confidence that it'd be a good use of anyone's time. I feel like I need help to get my ass in gear, and I don't know where to ask for that help. I am so fatigued by setting the same goals, starting with different strategies and then just falling on my face. 

     

    So, TL;DR - thank you Jan 2023, for the quick reminder that setting goals means diddly squat if I don't get get things done every day. Same old, same old.

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  6. I'm not going to set up a challenge, because it would feel like wasted space. I  aim to check in at least once a week in this thread for 2023.

     

    My strategy this year is 'face what you fail'. The premise is that rather than working towards goals (which clearly hasn't worked for me), I'm going to work AWAY from the stuff that I don't want. To that end, I have taped up three photos in my room: a photo of myself without clothes, a photo of my living space in its current state, and a photo of my bank statements. These are my daily reminders of what I haven't done - and what the consequences of my inaction are.

     

    The crux my of challenges come down to not being happy with:

    - my body (I want to improve my strength, endurance, pain levels, flexibility, nutrition, sleep quality, BF%)

    - my housing situation (I want to live in an organised/uncluttered space, and to have my own functional independent space)

    - my professional choices (I want to feel financially self sufficient, and it'd be nice to be excited about my work)

     

    I know that all the 'happiness' metrics & research suggest that the PEOPLE you spend time with are hugely important to your wellbeing and satisfaction with life. At the moment though I cannot imagine a lifestyle which requires more people, so I'm going to put that on the backburner for now because otherwise I'm pretty sure I'd just self-sabotage any goals in that area.
     

    Strategy #1 - Accountability: BUJO every morning, remind myself what a lack of execution leaves me with

     

    Strategy #2 - Reward: Roll a die for anything accomplished in a week; every time I roll a 5, I can add $5 to a slush fund to buy a new DVD series or something else fun

     

    Strategy #3 - Discipline: I am not allowed to watch ANY movies/TV shows unless I'm on a treadmill/bike/rower/elliptical or tidying; if I do, I forfeit all earned rolls for the day

     

    Strategy #4 - Follow Bad with Good: Any time I open any social media or want to watch a YT video, I need to do 20 of a bodyweight exercise first (and/or for every 10min spent). I may also revisit my 'on the hour every hour' physical activity goals at some point.



    Actionable habits:
     

    Spoiler

    Habits for my body are the ones I understand and can identify most easily (these are all daily-reset):

    • sun salutations and chug 500ml of H20 to start the day
    • get sunlight in my eyes (ie. go outside) for at least 10min within the first hour of waking up
    • at least 150g of protein/day
    • no more than 100g net carbs/day
    • at least 5 veg/fruit servings/day
    • at least 3 portions of low sugar ferments/day 
    • 2.5L+ liquids/day
    • weights x3/ week
    • C25k x3/week
    • in bed by 11pm, no reading in bed

     

    Habits for my living situation are IN THEORY simple, but may change over the course of the year:

    • Take at least 1 full garbage/recycling/donation bin out of the house a week (worth 3 rolls)
    • Take at least 1hr/week to declutter/tidy/clean my spaces (worth 2 rolls)
    • Bonus decluttering and/or cleaning, 1hr = rolls


    Habits for my professional stuff:

    • honestly I have no idea. so I guess for right now it's 'pick a fucking direction and set some fucking goals'


    Stretch goals/bonus points (each is worth 2 rolls):

    • work on a C++ or Python course (minimum 30min)
    • work on a short film (minimum 30min, watching YT tips doesn't count)
    • singing or piano (minimum 20min)
    • extra stretching/yoga (minimum 20min)

     

    I will be trying Habitica to track habits & 'to do' stuff. We'll see how it all goes!

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  7. I don't really have any updates to offer. This week I need to sit down and physically write out everything I've tried in the last 5yrs, in my attempts to kick my own ass into gear. I don't know what to do anymore, so I may as well take stock; maybe I'll luck out and see a really obvious gap.

     

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  8. Carb cycling is often used more for fine-tuning energy for different types of workouts. For fat loss, the more relevant metric to look at is total caloric intake. If you keep your intake the same and just cycle your carbs, it will not typically result in fat loss.

     

    You can create a caloric deficit by taking in fewer calories, or burning more calories. Those are the only options.

     

    Some other things that are beneficial to take  a look at for fat loss include:

    - getting enough quality sleep (7+hrs /night)

    - increasing your non-exercise activity (eg. get up every hour to move, go for a walk outside, etc.)

    - ensuring you're consuming enough protein to favour fat loss instead of muscle loss (1.2-1.8g/kg/day is a good starting point; the higher the better)

    - resistance training will also help to push your body towards fat loss rather than muscle loss

    - stress management; journaling, meditation, colouring books, walking outside, yoga, visiting with friends, etc.

    - eating at or below your TDEE; this could involve prioritising more nutritious that have less caloric density (eg. increase vegetable/fruit intake, whole grains instead of refined, etc.)

     

    Remember that successful changes long-term for body composition require you to make lifestyle changes, not just 'going on a diet'. Start as you mean to go on: with habits that improve your health and wellbeing, rather than thinking of your choices as 'restriction or bust'.

  9. I think I may have mentioned this idea before, but I figured I'd offer it up in case anyone else wants to join me in it.

     

    I want to do 20 reps (or 30sec) of a bodyweight exercise on the hour for every waking hour (more or less). So: set an egg timer as a reminder, and keep track with a basic BUJO or something.

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    15 sets/day - this is easy enough to do in a public bathroom, on the way to your car, getting up from a desk, etc. Encourages regular movement, marks the passage of time, adds 60min(ish) of NEAT/week, improves daytime alertness, might help with ROM and strength stuff, and I'm sure some other fun benefits. I'm aiming for 2500 total sets before reassessing, which takes us to the beginning of Dec, give or take.

    Some ideas for bodyweight (or light banded) movements could include, but are not limited to: Bear Crawl, Liard Walk, other crawls, Turkish Get Up, Supermans, Mountain Climbers, Donkey Kick, Clam, Knee Circles, Push Ups, Band Pull-Aparts, No-Moneys, Reverse Plank, Glute Bridges, Reverse Lunge, Ass to Grass BW Squats, Lateral Lunge, Skater Hops, Dead Bugs, Bird Dogs, High Knees, Jump Squats, Skater Hops, Froggers, Burpees, Jumping Jacks

    So, uh.... any takers?

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  10. There are lots of ways to program progressive overload! Weight (or leverage, as is typically used for calisthenics) is only one of them. 

     

    Other ways you can make exercises more difficult: do more reps, do reps slower, try to increase ROM, take a pause at the beginning/end of each rep, shorter rests, doing the exercises more often, etc.

     

    Depending on your long-term goals it may be worth having a chat with  trainer or physio though, to ensure that you're doing everything safely in a way that will benefit your health.

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  11. On 5/26/2022 at 8:27 AM, Harriet said:

    All I know is it goes down a lot easier with delicious fat. But that may or may not match your other goals.


    Any known cause?

    Delicious fat ruins my tummy, unfortunately. And no, no direct causes that I'm aware of, probably just shitty sleep quality recently or something.
     

     

    On 6/13/2022 at 12:59 PM, Mad Hatter said:

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  12. On 6/6/2022 at 8:05 PM, juliebarkley said:

    If kicking your own ass isn't working, could you recruit help by finding a partner who is working on something similar, so that you can kick each other's asses? For one goal at least?

    I WISH! Unfortunately I'm just enough of a jerkface :P that I don't typically find it very motivating to have a buddy keep me on track - I don't really 'care' what they say/think/do. I wish it weren't true, but that type of external accountability just doesn't do anything useful for me, or at least it hasn't in the past.

    I didn't really keep up with tracking here on the forums for the last challenge, but I'm mostly ok with that.

    I like the 'roll the dice for a reward' approach, but I utterly failed on the 'no junk movies/tv' part of it, so I didn't exactly accrue a ton of points this time around. 

    I think I'm going to skip the challenge this time 'round, but will probably check in on this thread once in a while instead.

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    May 29 - Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

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    May  30 (new moon) - Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does. - William James

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    May 31 - If you do not tell the truth about yourself, you cannot tell it about other people. - Virginia Woolf

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    June 01 - Let us make our future now, and let us make our dreams tomorrow's reality. - Malala Yousafzai

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    June 02 - Love many thing, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, an can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well. - Vincent van Gough

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    June 03 - We can't plan life. All we can do is be available for it. - Lauryn Hill

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    June 04 - Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success. - Swami Sivananda

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    June 05 - You can waste your life drawing lines, or you can live your life crossing them. - Shonda Rhimes

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    June 08 - Argue with anything else, but don't argue with your own nature. - Sir Philip Pullman

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    June 09 - When someone is cruel or acts like a bully, you don't stoop to their level. No, our motto is "When they go low, we go high". - Michelle Obama

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    June 11 - Give light and people will find the way. - Ella Baker

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    June 12 - Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius. - Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

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    June 13 (45% of the year gone, shit) - We may encounter many defeats, but we must not be defeated. - Maya Angelou (Marguerite Annie Johnson)
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  13. My personal bias says that a bro split is a very bad choice for a beginner/intermediate lifter who isn't using steroids. Full body work increases the frequency with which you can exercise each muscle group, which tends to have the largest effect on strength and hypertrophy. Switching to a full body, or least an upper/lower split, might be a good option. Maybe something like phraks greyskull lp? You could alternate lifting days with some interval or cardio work, so you're not doing heavy resistance work every day (recovery is important!).

     

    If you're wanting to bump up your calories but are concerned about gaining fat, the 'easy' answer is to only increase your protein intake. Your body has to work VERY hard to convert protein to body fat, so it's the least likely to result in anything other than lean body mass increases. I understand when you say 150g/day is a lot to manage, but if you can manage an extra protein shake or something, that might be a good option.

     

    Further to the idea of 'more muscle, less fat', take a look at your sleep quality/quantity (makes a HUGE difference for overall health and progress in the gym), and stress management. You can also try going for a walk every day, as a low-impact way to burn a few extra kcal without messing with your hormones/nervous system.

  14. Cardio can affect strength workouts in a negative way, but as long as you're not doing them back to back the strength workouts will only HELP the cardio, not hinder.

     

    My personal bias would be to do full body workouts only - splits don't make sense if you're only doing resistance training twice a week. Something like this might be a good starting place: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/beginner-body-weight-workout-burn-fat-build-muscle/ 

  15. On 6/9/2022 at 8:46 AM, Toph821821 said:

    It's definitely annoying at first, but it becomes a part of the routine and lets me know my body is working to build more muscle.

    Just something to keep in mind: soreness has no correlation to protein synthesis (muscle building) or muscle activation. You don't have to be sore to get a good workout in, and it's not a BETTER workout if it makes you sore. DOMS is most common after novel movements or eccentric loading. The micro-tears/damage that correlates to DOMS CAN be one contributing factor for hypertrophy, but it's certainly not the only one.

  16. 21 hours ago, Jean said:

    If you're not practicing it already, the savings part may suggest that the FIRE (Financial Independance, Retire Early) approach might help

    Money is not a motivator for me - my life would be much easier if it were.  I'm glad you've found something that helps to push yourself forward. The 'savings' thing is just me wanting to be lazy about budgeting: to own stuff outright instead of needing to calculate operating expenses/payments against accrued interest. Hence it being a good rational goal, but not at all emotionally compelling.

     

     

    I wish I had something useful/thoughtful/interesting to report for my challenge/goals/progress... but I'm just tired.


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    May 25 - Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn. - Harriet Beecher Stowe

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  17. You'll lose belly fat through diet. Don't eat over your TDEE, get at least 1g of protein per lb of bodyweight, and take it easy with any alcoholic (or sugary) treats. Sleep and recovery are also hugely important, as is stress management.

     

    The routine itself looks perfectly fine, don't forget to warm up. With the history of a hernia though, you really should chat with a physiotherapist to ensure that the movements you've selected will be safe for you at this stage of your recovery.

     

  18. So a few days of experimentation tells me that I can hit 200g of protein pretty easily and still keep more or less within my maintenance kcal intake. But the extra bump up  past there is a lot more difficult to stomach. How on earth do people bulk properly?! So much food.

     

    Unfortunately, I'm still tired. If anything, I feel tired all the time now, instead of just an afternoon slump. But I'll slog on for another week or so, see how things go.

     

    Work is busy and stressful right now, and I'm simultaneously fatigued by the whole thing and once again surprised at how well it COULD work if I had a system and just focused on 'earn X amount of savings' if I could just stop feeling emotionally invested in how things go.

     

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  19. On 5/21/2022 at 5:45 PM, Endor said:

    We've discovered a lot of mould in cupboards and around the house. 

    If you're renting, contact your landlord to deal with this asap! If you're the owner, same rules apply. Mold causes a TON of health issues long-term, it's no bueno.

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