TGP

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About TGP

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  • Birthday 10/19/1972

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  1. TGP

    TGP voyages to the Edge of the Map!

    OMGoodness I'm startled out of silence! How do you Find such Awesome Gifs!!?. NOBODYDOESHYPELIKETHEHYPEMASTERSHAAR!!!! and anyways. I've ALWAYS had a soft spot for Mr Bean- my british avatar I'd swear!
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    TGP voyages to the Edge of the Map!

    yeah, I didn't make much of a big deal about it. I turned 47 last weekend. ty!
  3. TGP

    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    this is where, shaar's superior wisdom is much better than my own. (it was very wonderfully expressed). I do Understand that feelings have to come out and that pushed back inside can be very bad and dangerous; but at the same time they tend to build in intensity and say, No so true, things that can badly damage our confidence, courage and conviction. so speaking Very personally now, MY problem (with feelings) is that they seem corrosive inside AND outside. like a Knife that cuts either way. since I have an instinctive fear of sharp things- I tend to bury deep feelings and put my head down and just push on (and on and on). so... I appreciate all your friends that bring out such good advice. just know that... I don't think you're horribly hard to live with. Like me misjudging stu; I think this is a bad interpretation of you. but I certainly agree that it has been a hard experience.
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    ok. then I am Half happy for you. I do think going in with your friend makes a lot of sense. and... I'll quit worrying about you. <3 PPPS? I Sincerely apologize for people trying to come up to speed in this thread. this is WHY its hard to chat in this kind of forum.
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    well, ok maybe its NOT as easy of a question as I thought? keep in mind though it can be very expensive to move. with a friend to help you make that investment, things can happen quicker. ofc you have to think clearly about what it would be like to live with that person. so I understand Now it seems to me that You can stay tight in stu's place for some time. but he WILL put pressure on you to leave. no matter how cordial your relationship with him has been; this isn't a good time for that relationship. he wants you out because he's decided he can't trust you. (personally- this seems a Douche thing to ME. he knows you struggle with some mental illness; and that can find it hard to find money from time to time. instead; a gently said text to remind you of the rent would have been best for both of you) ---- Anyways. enough of that. if this was ME , I'd grab a lot of tea and get a bath and do some art /listen to music/ whatever you need to thoroughly allow the crisis in your mind to pass before you make any firm plans I've asked a lot of questions and grilled you in the hopes that I could help your think through things; but at the moment its not as bad as it was you have options. you have time. and it is , what 7pm what a hard day it has been, right? and yesterday was clearly a nightmere as well. I'm sure your hungry. eat as good as you can and Don't beat yourself up if that isn't extremely healthy. This has been a hard day; Please allow yourself to eat something easy without alot of guilt.
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    oh YAY! wonderful!! I retract my questions
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    https://www.bbc.com/news/business-44041999 per UK law you have rights for 84days of notice (provided you have been there more than 6months or longer) you also have legals rights to a deposit; espacially providing that you have caused no damage to the property. that Exception has been tricky for every place I've ever rented. Landowners (here in PA) hate to give up the deposit. if he gives Eviction notice (which I'm sure he has), do NOT give him any more money. you will need to money to hop into something else. --- no we have to work this out. can you just hold on 84days worth of days to earn income and sit on the property while you get enough resources to move to a new place? this is a potentially different choice than bailing to your dad. you tell stu; "fine, but you gotta wait 84days for me to find something" he won't like that! ..... tough! rule#1 YOU do what it takes to Survive! how important is it to stay in manchester? how much is typical rent compared to what you normally pay?? lots of questions please continue to talk to me as you are able to
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    in fact I wish we could chat. this is a moment I think where we need to talk I don't know if I can help, but I sure want to try
  9. TGP

    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    ha! don't be worrying about me I am fine. I want you to keep talking to me and keeping your head above water. eating is good, but the lack of answers will fester if we can't work it out.
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    yeah this is a real low blow. back to your dad. tell me about him. could you crash there for a while?
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    and as a follow up question what about your dad? can he help? I'm really worried about you. I guess this stu guy is kind of a landlord too? ( I thought he WAS a room-mate) missed that. you said earlier he wanted to talk and that he was all putting it off I guess the hints that this was coming was there. I know you know now; but you really cannot use payday loans. they will ruin you whole life. even now; you need to make sure you don't fall into desperation that might make things worse. the hard thing is that when you are SO stressed you really do need to make good decisions at this point. if there is ANYWAY to describe things well enough; we'll do everything we can to help. PS.... please PLEASE quite worrying about your dad IF YOU CAN. I know your very worried of him- but your going through so much right now. you need to handle things One Thing at a time when things are hard. Only the Next 5 feet! (if you see my analogy)... not being too heavy (you can't fix that in this moment) or his health. Don't heap the badnews on top of each other.
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    but MOSTLY please be Well this is hard thing and your feelings were already frazzled no Self-harm! got it? it will be OKK
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    Salinger's twenty sixth challenge!

    aww that's sad. I'm sorry. you need to preserve your mental health. collect up a little and work it out. can friends help?
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    TGP voyages to the Edge of the Map!

    the line in yellow is (hopefully) the right route. its a Little vague on the satellite view... but hopefully that route will be a good dependable dirt road up into the woods near my house/town.
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    TGP voyages to the Edge of the Map!

    yeah, don't worry about that when you as OLD as am I... ha anyways. you never get over the fun of getting something. ... anyways, right now it seems like a neat toy - and I'm trying to understand differences with my old watch Tomarrow morning should be really its first real use. I want to go out tomarrow; run and run to a lowish heart rate. ... thats if I can, however. I have eyes on a new dirt road to try and not sure how steep and rugged it will be