I am needng advice on how to deal with an older man at the gym who keeps talking to me. there has been multiple occasions where he comes up to me while i’m in the middle of lifting weights and he just stares at me until I put my weights down to speak with me (I have headphones in). I have to take them out to see what he wants. When he first started approaching me it was simple questions asking ab my workouts but now they are personal, name, where I work and where I live. He even told me he was going to bake me a cake and bring it to the gym for me but I didn’t show up that night bc I was scared. Every time he sees me he gives me some type of candy that I never eat. I tried coming at different times but then he started coming when I changed my times. so I told him I didn’t like to talk at the gym, and that I was just there to workout and get out. But he still comes up to me all the time. I’m not sure what to do at this point. I just wish he would leave me alone. I really don’t want to have to move gyms just bc of a man that makes me feel uncomfortable. any advice on how to deal with this would be greatly appreciated.