Dapper_Kitty

It really was an accident, he was a jerk not a brute. We were already arguing when we decided fuck this lets go to sleep, he turned off the light and as he was climbing onto the bed I was readjusting myself and he ended up crushing my hand in the darkness.

Thank you guys so much for all the support, I'm feeling much better. I'm spending time at my best friends house and all my friends are saying "Thank god it's over" and "You'll be okay" I haven't tried calling him, haven't thought about it actually. It still hurts a bit but I know I'll be okay and more then anything I'm proud I didn't let him get away with pushing me around, I actually stood up for myself

Yesterday my boyfriend of nearly two years broke up with me. The relationship was not a very good one, he never got me a birthday present and last Christmas I got him a GPS he got me nothing but got a friend of mine a $300 gift and was upset when I got mad. He would always pop down to the shops for 5 minuets but show up 3 hours later, hardly responded to my text, didn't remember things I told him, would make me feel stupid if I had a problem and when my Dad was in hospital from a stroke I had to beg him to stick around and comfort me instead of going out. Not a very good one, but I did love him. He accidentally dislocated two of my knuckles last night and as I was getting taken care of he instead tried to sleep, when I confronted him about it instead of apologizing he got very yelly so I told him I wanted him out of my house tonight, I just don't want to see him. He told me he would grab his stuff tomorrow and then he's out of this relationship. He stopped by this morning and grabbed his stuff, barley speaking a word to me. Part of me is happy about this because of the previous mentioned crap but god does it hurt, it hurts so much. I've dumped and been dumped before by people who did less to me but having him walk out of my life hurts more then I thought it could... And I don't know what to do.

Hi there, my names Mel and this is my challenge thread I'll also be doing other things but accomplishing these as well will get me to *Da Da Da DAAAAAAAAAA* Lvl 2! Anyways I'm currently 78KG and have a body like this Rocking the work out gear Now don't get me wrong I'm a little over weight but I don't hate my body I just want to be fitter and stronger to enjoy life more I want to be my old self again, the girl that use to go out dancing and would get soooo exhausted, I don't do the things I love any more and that sucks I wanna go out more and live life... As well as continue playing video games >_> So anyways here are my goals; Rock climbing (+2STA +3CON) No more coffee (+3CON) Bench press 15kg (+3STR +2STA) Learn most common terms in German (+2WIS) I currently am suck at German, but I'll get there though... Wish me luck!

That is so awesome! I'm in a mix of awe and jealousy right now! Hope some day I can do as much as that too

Okay I think I got it now

Okay so I get the icon things but I don't get the stats that come with them. I understand that they are based on RPG's but what do each of them stand for and how do I determine the amount of points they get? Or is it mostly guess work?

Wow I never knew that, I mean I knew it was bad but wow 13%?! That's just crazy!

Hi there, My names Mel or Dapper Kitty as I'm I find fancy felines very funny. Anyway I've just started working out after reaching the worst weight I've ever been, 78kg (171 pounds). It all started 2 years ago when my sports bra broke, I've always been quite erm well endowed but small around the back so it's difficult to find a bra let alone a sports bra for me and they're always SO expensive. So fitness took a back step, the sports bra thing was my excuse for a very very long time and suddenly I found myself afraid of scales and my clothes getting tighter, I didn't feel fat though but I certainly didn't feel fit either. But I decided to donate blood for the first time and they had to take my weight to make sure I was healthy, I didn't look down but the nurse helping my muttered the numbers as she scribbled them down '78Kgs?! Nope that's not right' I went home and looked at myself in the bathroom mirror, okay so I was a little pudgy but not to bad I could live with this. When I realized I didn't want to live with this I'm not just a little heavy I'm weak as a kitten and I can't run, hell I hardly go dancing with my friends anymore because that takes far to much energy. Yes I could live with this, but I wouldn't live happily, not the way I want to at least. So I went to the gym I can press 12Kg (26 pounds) and curl 5.5Kg (12 pounds) and lift 10Kg (22 pounds) with calf raises. I run on the tread mill for half an hour and work out on the bike until the machine says 100 calories are gone but I usually do this at a slow pace 'cause I study german at the same time so it takes me around 20 minuets. I also do several other work out routines from an app I downloaded buuuuut I don't really know what category it would come under so I can't describe it. Anyways I was told by nearly everyone I know that if I keep working with barbells and dumbbells I'll get really bulky (But it's what I love so I keep doing it and keep trying to push myself) so when looking for a way to prove them wrong I found nerd fitness, I'm still getting through all that reading but I now have better ideas on what to do and how to achieve what I want in life. I'm already avoiding scales (I decided I'd only weigh myself when ever I donate blood now) because I want this to be about fitness not how much I weigh if I get as fit and healthy as I want with the toned body I want I won't care if I weigh 88Kg because this isn't about those numbers. Well that's all the rambling I can think of, in short hello and happy to be here Any advice is always welcome!