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  1. 5/3 WOD:

     

    Spoiler

    Session 3

    Comanche  Week 2  Session 3

     

    Objective: Hypertrophy

     

    Warm-up: 

    3 Rounds

    6x Back Squat (High or Low Bar) – increase load

    • 45# x 6
    • 65# x 6
    • 85# x 6

    6x T-Push-up

    3x Pull-up

    30x Jumping Jacks

    60 sec. STOC

     

    Hypertrophy A:

    1-1/4 Back Squat (High or Low Bar)

    Round: 1-2-3-4-5

    Reps: 4-6-8-10-12

    • 95# x 4
    • 105# x 6
    • 115# x 8
    • 120# x 10
    • 125# x 12

    Load: See Comanche Squat and Bench Loading Table Below

    Rest: 15-30-45-60-90 sec.

     

    Hypertrophy B:

    Bench Press

    Round: 1-2-3-4-5

    Reps: 4-6-8-10-12

    • 65# x 4
    • 75# x 6
    • 95# x 8
    • 105# x 10
    • 105# x 12

    Load: See Comanche Squat and Bench Loading Table Below

    Rest: 15-30-45-60-90 sec.

     

    Hypertrophy 😄 *Nixed due to time*

    2 Rounds

    10 sec. Calf Raise

    5 sec. Hold in Up Position

    10 sec. Calf Raise

    5 sec. Hold in Up Position

    Rest 30 sec.

     

    Hypertrophy 😧

    3 Rounds

    Bicep 21’s using 2x 12# DB's

    8x Push up Circles – 2x circles

    Rest 60 sec.

     

    NOTES: Breaking up sets is fine on Hyp A and B.

     

     

    Wolf

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  2. "You must be proud, bold, pleasant, resolute, and now a then stab, as occasion serves." - Christopher Marlowe

     

    Train the Body:

     

    • First and foremost, training is important to me. There is an aesthetic I like, a vainness that I enjoy. But, I like being strong. Not just inside the gym, but outside the gym. I thought a lot about it this past weekend with moving and knowing how the strength I've garnished over the years of lifting really helped me out. I think about being weaker and not being able to lift as much weight and how much more difficult the move would have been. I'm thankful for the time I've put in and how it's translated to real world application.
    • I started a new training program through the middle of the last challenge and love it. The programming is great. The structure and ability to complete within an hour is even better, given that 60-65min is basically the max time I have to train before I have to get ready for work. I'm excited to get back into the program called "Comanche" later this week.
    • The program calls for sprints 2x a week but I think with my busy schedule and two jobs that I'll just go for 1x a week for now.

     

    Train the Mind:

     

    • I know that I am mentally strong. The key to me being successful in my every day life is to be strong mentally. I work 2 jobs. Sometimes my day extends around the 17-18hr mark from the time I wake up to the time I get off from Costco and get home. I have a BRAND NEW routine now that I've moved and this week is going to be an adjustment. 
    • Finish 2 audible books during this challenge. Utilize my longer commute. Train my Creative Mind™
      • Empire of Silence (Sun Eater Book #1) (16hrs left)
      • Howling Dark (Sun Eater Book #2)

     

    Recover the Body:

     

    • Foam roll, yoga, massage gun: USE ALL OF THESE THINGS. Work hard. Play hard. Recover hard.

     

    Recover the Mind:

     

    • Nap. Eat at your desk to save time and use part of your hour lunch to catch some Zzz's. 
    • Meditation goes a long ways, I think. I definitely don't take the time to relax my mind in that regard and train it up to be stronger and more palpable. 5min a day is not long. I can do this. 

     

    Empire of Silence Signals the Arrival of an Epic Science Fiction Talent -  B&N Reads

     

    Wolf

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  3. 15 hours ago, KB Girl said:

    Hey! Did everything go according to plan? Done with the move? 

     

    Hiiiiiii :) 

     

    Yes, the move is COMPLETE! It took all weekend long, but it was complete. All day friday was loading up the moving truck/Uhaul and moving and unloading all the heavy stuff. Saturday was a basketball game and my oldest son's bday party at our church. We played football and I dominated lol. We also packed up some things in the van and brought it back over to my dads. Then Sunday: was cleaning and getting the rest of the crap out of the house. We were done around 4pm so we could grab some food and get my oldest to his 2nd basketball game of the weekend. Long, long days this weekend was... BUT, we did it. 

     

    Now, back on the work grind and feeling tired. I did tweak my upper back on the right side yesterday putting duct tape on a box and packing things in there. It was already feeling tight that morning and I think I just strained it some. Maybe it was ALL the heavy lifting, maybe it was playing football on top of that? Why knows. I decided to rest today instead of push it. I'll see how I'm feeling Wednesday for the gym.  

     

    Challenge Recap:

     

    Overall, this was a good challenge. Despite giving up on the RPG aspect and moving into a more Mistborn themed challenge, I did fairly well. My eating was on point say for some sweets here and there. Pretty much had veggies 2-3x a day, almost with every meal. I could have taken advantage of more naps, but I didn't. I'm loving the new training program and can't wait to get back on that. I didn't focus on weighted pull-ups like I had originally intended, but that's ok. I like doing knuckle push-ups. That's fun. I did not journal or read scripture...so there's always improvement there. I did not follow a new challenge...but with the newest one starting next week, now seems like the perfect time to do so!

     

    I think there was just a lot on my plate towards the end of this one, so, it made it harder to stay engaged and give it my all. You win some. You lose some. I would probably call this more a tie than anything, lol.

     

    Wolf

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  4. It was an eventful week last week. Busy, per usual, but what else is new? We are slated to move out by the end of this upcoming weekend and still have a lot to do. Heather and I worked on our room yesterday and packed away a lot of stuff. I'm gonna try and work from home possibly Wednesday and Thursday so Heather can have the van (since we're down to one car again). We are looking at getting another vehicle as well with our income tax money and we're either going to get a smaller, fuel efficient car for me, or get another high occupancy vehicle, like a newer Honda Odyssey. Lots, and lots to do this week.

     

    Today's WOD:

     

    Spoiler

    Session 1

    Comanche  Week 2  Session 1

     

    Objective: Strength + Hypertrophy

     

    Warm-up: 

    3 Rounds

    6x Double KB Front Squat – increase load

    • 15#, 20#, 25#

    6x T-Push-up

    3x Pull-up

    15x Mountain Climbers e/s

    60 sec. STOC (foam rolling)

     

    Strength A:

    Double KB Front Squat + Push Press or Clean Variation + Push Press

    Rounds: 8

    Reps per round: 4-3-2-1-1-2-3-4

    • KB 40#'s x 4/ 45# (just the bar) x 4
    • KB 40#'s x 4/ 55# x 3
    • KB 40#'s x 4/ 65# x 2
    • KB 40#'s x 4/ 75# x 1
    • KB 50#'s x 4/ 85# x 1
    • KB 50#'s x 4/ 95# x 2
    • KB 50#'s x 4/ 115# x 3 x 2

    Load: DBD

    Rest: 60-90 sec.

     

    Note: we have given you two options here as not everyone can do a clean. If you choose to do the front squat + push press variation, do all your squats then do your presses. For the clean variation you will do a clean then press combined for the prescribed number of reps. 

     

    Hypertrophy A:

    4 Rounds

    10x Forearm Extension x 15# DB's

    10x Forearm Curl x 50# fixed barbell

    10x Curl (Barbell or DB) – final round go to failure. 

    • 10/10/10 x 50# fixed barbell ( I missed the "till failure part" but could of only done maybe 2 more

    Rest 30 sec.

     

    Hypertrophy B:

    2 Rounds

    10 sec. Calf Raise

    5 sec. Hold in Up Position

    10 sec. Calf Raise

    5 sec. Hold in Up Position

    Rest 30 sec.

     

    Core + Resilience:

    4 Rounds

    3x Cobra Complex*

    • 3x chin-ups followed immediately by 3x pull-ups

    3x Knee Tucks*

    30sec. Brettzel e/s - didn't do these. Wish I had. They look like it feels good.

    30 sec. Cactus e/s - didn't do these. Wish I had. They look like it feels good.

     

    *Come down from the bar as necessary.

     

    I was wearing a sleeveless Darth Vader "I am your Father" shirt today and my arms were looking veiny and jacked ;). I'm going to the gym tomorrow to play basketball with Racer and then I'll lift again on Wednesday, skipping Thursday and Friday to rest before I have to move all weekend. I'll be doing like 95% of the heavy lifting and need my body in prime shape.

     

    I stopped listening to Jade City. I like the idea behind it...but just wasn't feeling it. Maybe it was the narrator that made it seem a little more... "young adult" in an annoying way. I wanted a book that reminded me of Red Rising. Holy shit have I found it: The Sun Eater Books. Book 1 is Empire of Silence. I'm only 7 chapters in and loving it immensely. The writing quality is top notch. I did a little research and discovered the author wrote it when he was 22!! There's 5 books in the series now so I have a healthy amount of reading/listening material :) 

     

    Happy Monday!!

     

    Wolf

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  5. Today's WOD:

     

    Spoiler

    Session 3

    Comanche  Week 1  Session 3

     

    Objective: Hypertrophy

     

    Warm-up: 

    4 Rounds

    12x Lunges

    6x Military Press

    60 sec. Plank 

    25x Jumping Jacks

    *I took Racer with me to the gym so my warm-up was playing 10-min of basketball instead*

     

    Hypertrophy A:

    5 Rounds – DBD (difficult but doable)

    12x DB Military Press 

    • 25# DB's x 12
    • 30# DB's x 12 x 4

    6x Plyo Push-ups/Knuckle Push-ups

    • 2 x 6 plyo push-ups
    • 3 x 6 knuckle push-ups

    6x Vertical Pull of Choice: DB row

    • 1 x 50# x 6
    • 2 x 45# x 6
    • 1 x 50# x 6

    60 sec. Rest

     

    NOTE: Vertical Pull of Choice can be strict pull-ups, chin-ups, horizontal pull-ups, or lat pull-downs.

     

    Hypertrophy B:

    3 Rounds – DBD (difficult but doable)

    12x Split Squats e/s

    6x Jump Lunges e/x

    6x Calf Raise (elevated toes) – UNLOADED

    60 sec. Rest

     

    Core:

    3 Rounds

    30 sec. Plank

    15/15 sec. Side Plank

    10x Toes to Sky

    30 sec. Rest

     

    NOTE: Lots of volume today, so be smart and conservative with loading. You can always put more weight on in future sessions.

     

    A good workout today. I'm really loving this program. I've gone through and saved all the workouts on Google Docs and went through and saved phase 2, Mohican, as well. I'm gonna save phase 3, Apache, sometime this week so I always have the programs. 

     

    If anyone is looking for programs, let me know. I'll copy and paste it for you to have for yourself - I don't mind sharing ;) . They have conditioning programs, military-esque programs, strength based ones, hypertrophy ones, bodyweight, beginner. Lot's of good material.

     

    Wolf

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  6. 1 hour ago, Terra said:

    The family is doing good.  We added a service dog in training to my daughter's health care and she has been a godsend!  It helps that she is also adorable.  But my daughter is getting so much stronger and happier since we brought Zelda home. 

     

    That is MOST EXCELLENT news! I'm so happy to hear she's on the upswing and that you have this amazing pup to help. Great name too, btw!

     

    1 hour ago, Terra said:

    The hubby has recovered from all the tumor drama of last year and is thriving!  The other kiddo is plugging along at school and is doing good.

     

    This makes me extra happy. I'm glad that the tumor drama is behind you guys. I know that was hella stressful!

     

    1 hour ago, Terra said:

    Still doing the BJJ and we are now under Royce Gracie.  I've met him a couple of times and he is coming out for a seminar in May.  He makes me a little nervous!!!  All is going well! 

     

    WOW! That's really freakin cool! I would assume he makes MOST people nervous and intimidated lol. How's your knee??

     

    1 hour ago, Terra said:

    I try to checkup on the wolf pack when I jump on facebook but I don't play there much anymore.  

    Miss you guys!

    Season 9 Hug GIF by The Office

     

    Heather would love to hear from you. If you ever do get on, drop her a line. Aaaaaaaaand if you guys plan on visiting Texas anytime soon, let me know! We would love to have dinner with y'all :D 

     

    Wolf

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  7. Today's WOD:

     

    Spoiler

    Session 1

    Comanche  Week 1  Session 1

     

    Objective: Hypertrophy

     

    Warm-up: 

    3 Rounds

    6x Back Squat – increase load

    • 45# x 6
    • 55# x 6
    • 65# x 6

    6x Push-Pulls (Renegade Row) using 10# DB's

    45 second jump rope

    15x Mountain Climbers e/s

     

    Hypertrophy A:

    1-1/4 Back Squat

    Round: 1-2-3-4-5

    Reps: 4-6-8-10-12x

    • 95# x 4
    • 105# x 6
    • 115# x 8
    • 125# x 10
    • 130# x 12

    Load: See Comanche Squat and Bench Loading Table Below

    Rest: 15-30-45-60 sec.

     

    NOTE: You are going to increase weight and rest with each round. A 1-¼ Squat is where you descend to the bottom position, come up through the crux, then drop back down to bottom position, then return to the top.

     

    Hypertrophy B:

    DB Bench Press

    Round: 1-2-3-4-5

    Reps: 4-6-8-10-12x

    • 30# x 4
    • 40's# x 6
    • 42.5's# x 8
    • 50's# x 10
    • 55's# x 12

    Load: See Comanche Squat and Bench Loading Table Below

    Rest: 15-30-45-60 sec.

     

    Hypertrophy 😄

    2 Rounds

    10x Wall Lean Calf Raises(elevate toes) – UNLOADED

    10x BB Forearm Extensions w/ 12# DB's

    10x BB Forearm Curls w/ 65# fixed BB

    5x EOs e/s (this is a weird movement. I need to practice with these some more)

     

    NOTES: Breaking up sets is fine on Hyp A and B.

     

    It was a good weekend. We had a garage sale Friday and Saturday and made about $500 while getting rid of a bunch of stuff. Heather and I had the chance to have a date night Friday night and that was good. Work at Costco on Saturday was OK. We have a little more coverage so I had someone there till 6pm which helped out a lot. And, our grease caddy is working again so I didn't have to dump the grease, which is a huge pain in the ass.

     

    My brother and sister in law had their baby really early on Saturday at 31 weeks. The baby is doing good and looks really good despite being early. Heather and I know this all too well with having Trixie at 31 1/2 weeks and spending 36 days in the NICU. We are encouraging them and took them some things Sunday evening.

     

    My oldest had another basktball game Sunday afternoon and scored 15 pts leading his team to their 2nd victory in a row. That was awesome to see....cuz they kind of crushed the other team lol.

     

    All in all, it was a great weekend!

     

    Wolf

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  8. Today's WOD:

     

    Spoiler

    Session 5

    Comanche  Week 1  Session 5

     

    Objective: Hybrid

     

    Warm-up: 

    4 Rounds

    5x Deadlift – increase loading

    5x T-Push-ups

    60 sec. Plank 

    15x Mountain Climbers e/s

     

    Strength:

    10 Rounds total – DBD (This means difficult but doable and is a loading that allows you to choose based on how you feel that day)

    Rd:  1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10

    Reps: 5-4-3-2-1-1-2-3-4-5x Deadlift (any variation – sumo, conventional, high hip)

    • 5- 85#
    • 4- 95#
    • 3- 105#
    • 2- 115#
    • 1- 125#
    • 1- 135#
    • 2- 145#
    • 3- 155#
    • 4- 175#
    • 5- 195#

    60 sec. Rest

     

    Hypertrophy A:

    3 Rounds

    Biceps 21s w/ 12.5#

    8x Push-up Circles – 2x circles

    Rest 60 sec.

     

    Hypertrophy B:

    3 Rounds

    10x Calf Raise (elevate toes) – UNLOADED

    10x BB Forearm Extension 

    • 1x 5# DB's
    • 2x 10# DB's

    10x BB Forearm Curl

    • 3x 45# barbell

    -

     

    Happy Friday, y'all!

     

    I finished Dungeon Crawler Carl Book #5 on Wednesday. What a series! Book 6 is slated to come out this year as far as I know but I'm not sure. I started a new series called: Jade City. It's like The Godfather meets Mistborn with Kung Fu.

     

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    It's been VERY good so far. There are 3 total books out; Jade City, Jade War and Jade Legacy

     

    Wolf

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  9. Exciting news!! Well, for me at least. I was able to start the new program this morning and it was tough. I ALMOST waited to start next Monday but said "eff it" and started in the middle of the week and I'll just repeat it next week.

     

    Spoiler

    Warm-up: 

    4 Rounds

    12x Lunges

    6x Military Press (65#)

    30 sec. Plank 

    25x Jumping Jacks

     

    Hypertrophy A:

    4 Rounds 

    12x Military Press (55#)

    6x Knuckle Push-ups 

    5x Vertical Pull of Choice = Pull-ups

    60 sec. Rest

     

    NOTE: Vertical Pull of Choice can be strict pull-ups, chin-ups, horizontal pull-ups, or lat pull-downs.

     

    Hypertrophy B:

    4 Rounds – DBD

    12x Split Squats e/s (2x 10# DB)

    6x Jump Lunges e/x

    6x Calf Raise (elevated toes) – UNLOADED

    60 sec. Rest

     

    Core:

    3 Rounds

    30 sec. Plank

    15/15 sec. Side Plank

    10x Toes to Sky

    30 sec. Rest

     

    Both Hypertrophy A & B called for 6 rounds each but I did 4 instead. This is a HIGH volume program and I see how difficult this will get. Either or, I'm very excited about this. The programs name is: Comanche. It's apart of the Raider Cycle including: Comanche, Mohican and Apache. The goal is to slowly work my way through all 3 phases and build up as much muscle (and speed and strength) as possible. This program should take me all the way to summer where I can look like a sexy dad, perform like a sexy dad and ultimately make all the other dads around me jealous. It's a little petty, I know.

     

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    I hope the week is treating everyone nicely :) 

     

    Wolf

     

     

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  10. Mistborn 3-Week Challenge

     

    Allomancy is the predominantly genetic ability that allows a person to metabolize ("burn") metals, ingested by the Allomancer, for magical powers that can enhance physical and mental capacities.

     

    I made a wallpaper with the Allomantic symbols : r/Mistborn

     

    Snapping – is the process by which someone gains the powers of Allomancy

     

    Push

     

    Physical:

     

    o   Steel (external)pushes on nearby metals

    • OHP – main pushing exercise this challenge. Work on 1RM.
    • Focus on daily push-ups - no specific # just get in the reps

     

    o   Pewter (internal)increases physical ability

    • Sprinting 1x a week (work on increasing your sprint distance over each week)
    • Weighted stair master

        

    Mental:

     

    o   Zinc (external)enflames emotions

    • Don’t eat like an asshole. Veggies with at least 1x meal a day.

     

    o   Copper ((internal) hides allomantic pulses

    • Journal or update challenge daily. Reading and memorizing Scripture also works.

     

    Pull

     

    Physical:

     

    o   Iron (external)pulls on nearby metals

    • Weighted pull-ups – main pulling exercise this challenge. Work on overall volume.
    • Superset with 1-arm cable rows. Lower weight - Higher volume

     

    o   Tin (internal)increases senses

    • Get the house in order to move: Packing, organizing, cleaning. GET. IT. DONE. Move out date us 04/30.

     

    Mental:

     

    o   Brass (external)dampens emotions

    • Daily meditation. Minimum 5 min. Can also substitute for a nap.

     

    o   Bronze (internal)can hear allomantic pulses

    • Follow 1 new challenge and encourage/support them through the next 3-weeks

     

    “Never try to burn a metal that isn't one of the ten. I warned you that impure metals and alloys can make you sick. Well, if you try to burn a metal that isn't Allomantically sound at all, it could be deadly.”

    —  Kelsier to Vin

     

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    There are two metals for every power. One Pushes, one Pulls--the second is usually an alloy of the first. For emotions--the external mental powers--you Pull with zinc and Push with brass. You just used pewter to Push your body. That's one of the internal physical powers.

    -       Kelsier to Vin

     

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    @Elastigirl & @KB Girl, this ones for you ladies ;) 

     

    Wolf

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  11. 21 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

    I know bait when I see it, and as for baiting people, you are a master...

     

    BAITER!!

     

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    1 hour ago, Rurik Harrgath said:

     

    I get this.  We are currently in a one-income situation where I cannot legally work here yet, and while The Wife can keep us afloat on her own for now, we absolutely could not afford to buy a house here under normal circumstance.  The housing market is absolutely positively NOT the slightest bit single-income friendly in all honesty.  But we got in at a steal due to an intra-family sale, and I'm working my arse off to upgrade and renovate this place enough that we'll come out ahead when we sell in a few years or so to act as my annual salary contribution while I'm not working, and I'm House Husbanding like crazy to make it an equal situation, but it's still tough AF in its own way.

     

    There is the "what can I control" and "what I can't control" level to all this. I can't control the shitty economy and how it negatively effects the middle class, especially those who work their booties off. But I'm glad you guys lucked into the house, it's a pretty awesome gig and I KNOW you are working your tail off to upgrade The Abode™ to higher standards.

     

    1 hour ago, Rurik Harrgath said:

    I don't envy stay-at-home parents, and we only have animals 🤣 It's been really, really hard on me not being able to contribute financially, at least directly.

     

    I completely understand my brother. As the Husbands/Men we value that contribution to the marriage and family. We are providers down to our deepest core and I think with you doing a lot of the remodeling that it helps out immensely. Not saying Spezzy isn't handy with this stuff but I can guess she's pretty appreciative for you're working through the home improvements like a boss!

     

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    1 hour ago, Rurik Harrgath said:

    At least I can have a chuckle about the weird situation I've found myself in though 😛 Don't beat yourself over 'failing' in an economy where people with dual incomes are stuck in perpetual renting situations.  You're doing more than most would to better their family living arrangements!

     

    I'm definitely trying, my brother. Thanks for the encouragement :) 

     

    Wolf 

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  12. 17 hours ago, Rhovaniel said:

    You know, I really needed to hear that. Thank you. I mean this as the highest compliment, but sometimes you remind me of Willes.

     

    Sometimes I feel even more now that I have to be the gross and immature little gif monster that he was so good at portraying but he was also encouraging and thoughtful and just a good all around friend.  Willes was definitely a brother-from-another-mother and I most definitely take that as a high compliment :D 

     

    And I'm happy to give some encouraging words anytime. We support each other around here - NO MATTER WHAT.

     

    Im here for you GIF - Conseguir el mejor gif en GIFER

     

    17 hours ago, Rhovaniel said:

    Thank you for that. And for reminding me - I AM a Dúnedain ranger, and heck knows I can get past this. It's more than likely fatigue and having 'a week' 

     

    the lord of the rings gifs — miistborn: Aragorn + the sexy sword thing he  does...

     

    You're most welcome! You will definitely get past this! It's hard for a certified bad ass to stay down ;) 

     

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    Wolf

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  13. I just want to point out something. I'm kind of proud of it and it really just boils down to genetics, but.... My hair looked EXACTLY like this this morning:

     

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    I showered last night and this is how it dried and looked when I got up for work. If only I had taken a photo for proof!

     

    I was definitely feeling  myself a little today ;) 

     

    Carry on my wayard son(s) (and daughters).

     

    Wolf

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  14. 19 hours ago, Rhovaniel said:

    This morning I felt so - unready, I guess.

     

    My guess, which is merely a guess and not a diagnosis by any means is that...You're just "having a day/week" right now. Post race fatigue could be part of it. All the stuff you're doing on a daily could factor in. But, I think recognizing that this is just gonna happen sometimes and knowing this DOES NOT define you, your challenge or your progress is a real thing. It's ok to have bad days/weeks and even months from time to time. I don't know you as well as I would like but I don't see you letting this derail you anymore than it has. Something I've had to do working and living the busy schedule I have is to compartmentalize. I can overwhelm myself with task after task after task and all it does is get me tilted in a negative way and then the infamous Spiral Out of Control™ happens. 

     

    Just know this: You are strong. Not just physically but mentally as well. You are a Ranger of Dunedain and something they do better than most is ENDURE. So, keep your chin up, Ranger. Grab your bow and sharpen your sword. A time to rise for the battles ahead is now and you are more than suited for the task. I believe in you. You got this.

     

    Wolf

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  15. 1 hour ago, darkfoxx said:

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    You’ve got this. It sucks, but you will persevere and come out the other side with a better solution for the whole Pack. 

     

    Thanks, Foxxy. I don't disagree with you at all ;) 

     

    24 minutes ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

    Late stage capitalism and a crappy economy for everyone who isn't a billionaire is not a failing on your part.

     

    This is also true. Hard work still pays off, right? lol

     

    6 minutes ago, KB Girl said:

    QFT! Not exactly familiar with the situation in the US right now, but over here it is impossible to buy a house on a normal one person income unless you've got parents helping out.

    You're doing the absolute best that you can- and if that involves moving in with your dad for a year, then you will do that too and make the best of it I'm sure :) 

     

    I have a good track record of making the most out of situations and this isn't going to be easy. I have a feeling in a years time I'll be singing a very different tune knowing we've saved all this money and moving forward with our lives :) 

     

    6 minutes ago, KB Girl said:

    I don't think you're talking about me, but it's me! 

     

    😂 Correction: TWO Nerds who will be very happy

     

    Kelsier and Vin art by me! Hope you like it! : r/Mistborn

     

    Wolf

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  16. 17 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

    That's just not fair.

     

    The newest one being built is literally 1.5 miles down the road from our house now. I kept thinking to myself that I would work there and have the advantage of it being so dang close....NOT ANYMORE.

     

    So, the moving situation I mentioned...

     

    We are moving in with my dad and stepmom at the end of the month. We had a long talk, my wife and I, about needing to save money and wanting to BUY a house opposed to renting. I realize there are drawbacks to either one, but we feel like owning a house is the better long term option for us. We talked with my dad and stepmom thinking this wasn't even gonna be an option to move in with them but they were on board and wanted to help. It's just...I'm taking a family of 8 (when we have Jamison) and moving us all into someone else's house. Now, My dad and stepmom have the room for all of us. Albeit, it will be a little tight, they do have the extra space. This just feels like a slight step backwards and it's frustrating. Everything these days is so damn expensive! Working my 2 jobs barely gets us by and that just downright sucks because I work so hard to provide for The Wolfpack™ and I'm gone all the bloodydamn time. I literally work 65-70 hours a week, and sometimes that's all done in a 4-day time span.

     

    The plan is to move in with them for the next year. If we play our cards right and aggressively save, we could be walking away with 30+k in savings. This is a game changer when wanting to settle down somewhere...it's just a whole year to be crammed up with my dad and stepmom doesn't sound ideal. And this is with me having a great relationship with them both. I just feel like I've failed at providing for my family because this is where we've ended up. On the other end of that spectrum, I feel like I've worked my ass off for...what? Nothing? Not really but also yes at the same time. Maybe this move is what is best for the all-around aspect of things. Maybe this allows me to be a little more flexible with my jobs and start hunting for something I truly enjoy without the wholesome worry of income. 

     

    It's a lot. I'm trying to be positive about it and I feel like I'm doing an ok job right now. We have a metric ton to do in the next 3 1/2 weeks and I despise packing and moving. But, I'm gonna keep a level head and just get it done. I figured instead of planning for what could happen that it might just be easier to take things as they come right now and deal with it during the "right then and there". 

     

    Sigh...

     

    We'll be ok. I'll be ok. I got this.

     

    Wolf

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  17. 18 hours ago, TimovieMan said:

    Green = balance!

     

    That's  a lot of green on the graph! Way to go, dude!

     

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    15 hours ago, XBlackWidowX said:

    But maybe people are just different and proceed and react to things differently.

     

    I think the constant refilling of willpower for replenishment does take some skill. It's just a matter of your willingness to replenish.  I also think there are direct crossovers of discipline and willpower in the great circle of life. It's exhausting but I I personally feel like a well-worth-it type situation when you do :) 

     

    Wolf

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