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Situation: Have made significant health changes/improvements over the years to my health and lifestyle (go me! *patting self on back*). Over the past two years, family has started "expressing concerns" that I "over do it," "am too focused on weight loss," or things of that sort. Personally, I think it's funny as hell that no one really ever said anything to me about my weight when I was 300+. My motivations, goals, and plans have essentially been questioned, scrutinized, and examined under a microscope by several "powerful" members of the family without me ever asking for their input or validation. Question: Have any of y'all had to deal with similar situations? What did you do in those situations? I try really hard not to rage quit the conversations/moments when these things occur. But Thor almighty is it frustrating