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Hello I am looking for one or more someones to help me stay on track. I have a tendency to slip if I don't have the accountability that comes with talking to someone. My current challenge is with the rangers and I think that is where I'll stay for a while, but being the same class is no must. After all a group of more than one class tends to do best. The things I am currently working on include: weightloss, training for a triathlon, starting with some body weight training, focusing at work, focusing at home to do the things I want to do, walking the dog more, survival skills (like learning edible plants), trusting myself and my ability to do things more. I'd love to stay in contact either here or on some form of chat service, I use skype quite a lot for chats.

I'm looking for an online buddy for encouragement exchange and general acountability-buddy. I like hiking, yoga, meditation, walking dogs, and kung fu. I've lost a bit of weight over the last year and am looking to take it to the next level. Must have sense of humor and love science fiction...

I was working on trying out a fancy themed topic this time around with the theme of Phantasy Star Online and I mistakenly deleted the post TWICE without posting the topic :< ! Oh well. I have my goals in order though. They are mostly about walking more, doing kata and martial forms, harder resistance training and donating stuff because I might be moving out of my family's home. I have even been doing the goals this week, I just critically messed up in posting the topic. I will have the whole thing up soon!

Um...well this post will be personal for me, but I feel that NF is a safe place to ask for advice in this matter, so here goes. Well first of all, I am a late bloomer when it comes to boys. If a handsome man rolled up in a awesome work truck, I would notice the truck before him. Don't know why. But now I'm actually starting to notice them and wanting them to notice me. But that's one of the problems, guys don't notice me. I come off as a friend rather than marriageable material. And then the guys who've chatted with me online (not NF men, their all gentlemen thank God!) only want to hang out in order to get in my pants. And these are gamers and comic book freaks (not worthy of being Nerds!). I know I'm not pretty, and the guys I like are not looking for girls like me. But if I do meet a guy I like and he actually wants to get to know me, what do I do? What's a date usually like? What do I wear? Just anything you guys can tell me would help immensely! I've never been on a date, and I'm not ashamed to admit it I'm a virgin. Being a Christian I believe in sex after marriage. So on a date how do I identify if a guy is trying to hint that he wants more? Should I just tell him straight up what my rules are? I am so at a loss.... Also how do I look like a girl? If you look at my photos in my gallery you'll notice that pants and baggy shirts are a second skin to me. And make up is really foreign to also. Please help!

I am looking for on-line or offline sidekick to keep me motivated and acountable I have multipule ways of comunication lol I live in north phoenix area I work out @ planet fitness for now {lol i know i know}