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32 minutes ago, deftona said:

 

*gently reminds Shello Deffy is at her service* 

Something I shall never forget...however, my emotions have been constant.  I want to be respectful of your time as well.  I feel like I need a live in therapist at the moment.    

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I am not saying I am Wonder Woman. I am just saying no one has ever seen me and Wonder Woman together in the same room.

 

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1 hour ago, Cheetah said:

 

I hear playing an instrument helps.  Might I recommend

 

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#ukulele4life

Good idea.  I have no ukulele but I do have a guitar I've been meaning to learn how to play.  I'm currently terrible at it.  

 

3 minutes ago, Rab397 said:

I am here to observe aswell!

Woohoo.  My favorite Viking. 

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I am not saying I am Wonder Woman. I am just saying no one has ever seen me and Wonder Woman together in the same room.

 

Current Challenge: Shello Finally Fitnesses (sort of) and does some other things

Challenges: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 789, 10, 11, 12 , 131415, 1617181920, 21, 2223242526272829303132, 33, 3435, 36??

Starting weight = 290.4; Current weight = 269; Total pounds lost: 21.4

 

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Just now, LadyShello said:

Something I shall never forget...however, my emotions have been constant.  I want to be respectful of your time as well.  I feel like I need a live in therapist at the moment.    

 

Don't worry about that. As long as you don't mind me falling asleep on you only to pick up the conversation a few hours later (timezones suck) then it's all fine. Whenever you need me. 

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I'm more than adequate. Leave Kanye out of this. 

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27 minutes ago, LadyShello said:

Good idea.  I have no ukulele but I do have a guitar I've been meaning to learn how to play.  I'm currently terrible at it.  

 

Well now you have to.

 

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I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest bottling up emotions is not the best idea in the world. Many good options have been presented. Remember, you're going to be new at this, just like when you were new at workouts. Expect the emotional equivalent of DOMS at first.

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4 hours ago, LadyShello said:

I don't really have any a plan for in between sessions except get overwhelmed or avoid them entirely. 

Share them here if you're comfortable. :)

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5 hours ago, LadyShello said:

Even if thehunger was geniune I'm not sure I trusted myself to handle any food decisions

It's really telling about myself that I read this as 'I'm not sure I trusted myself to handle any food, delicious' sigh. 

 

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3 hours ago, deftona said:

 

Don't worry about that. As long as you don't mind me falling asleep on you only to pick up the conversation a few hours later (timezones suck) then it's all fine. Whenever you need me. 

Timezones do suck.  

 

2 hours ago, DrFeelgood said:

 

Well now you have to.

 

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I walked right into this, didn't I?

 

2 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest bottling up emotions is not the best idea in the world. Many good options have been presented. Remember, you're going to be new at this, just like when you were new at workouts. Expect the emotional equivalent of DOMS at first.

That is an analogy I can understand.  :) 

 

1 hour ago, Plazmotic said:

Share them here if you're comfortable. :)

I am actually quite open and have few boundaries with my fellow nerds...  However, in this case I am not ready for this issue to be public yet. 

 

38 minutes ago, jonfirestar said:

It's really telling about myself that I read this as 'I'm not sure I trusted myself to handle any food, delicious' sigh. 

 

Ha!  That's why you're my people.

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I am not saying I am Wonder Woman. I am just saying no one has ever seen me and Wonder Woman together in the same room.

 

Current Challenge: Shello Finally Fitnesses (sort of) and does some other things

Challenges: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 789, 10, 11, 12 , 131415, 1617181920, 21, 2223242526272829303132, 33, 3435, 36??

Starting weight = 290.4; Current weight = 269; Total pounds lost: 21.4

 

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2 hours ago, DrFeelgood said:

 

Well now you have to.

 

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I can play that on my ukulele.  It's harder on uke than it is on a guitar, I've been told.

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1 hour ago, LadyShello said:

I am actually quite open and have few boundaries with my fellow nerds...  However, in this case I am not ready for this issue to be public yet. 

That's what PM's are for.

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On ‎2‎/‎5‎/‎2018 at 11:09 AM, LadyShello said:

Every notification I get from my thread will be a reminder that I do not eat my feelings.  So every time you like something or comment on my thread you are helping me reinforce that I do not eat my feelings.  

 

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Don't eat your feelings!

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1 hour ago, Sloth the Enduring said:

You can sledgehammer shit I guess.

Actually a good strategy. That's the opposite of bottling them up.

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9 minutes ago, DrFeelgood said:

 

Yup, it's super easy on guitar...just three open cords.

 

It would be easy on uke except one of those three chords is E.

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It's just not a direction your pinkie finger was thinking about going when it got up this morning.

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5 hours ago, Sloth the Enduring said:


You can sledgehammer shit I guess.
 

 

But maybe don't sledgehammer the person you're mad at? People generally don't like it when you do that and will probably make your life more complicated in the long term.

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20 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

That's what PM's are for.

I may take you up on that.

 

20 hours ago, Sloth the Enduring said:

Honestly, I don’t even know what you would do with emotions except for bottle them up.

Spoken like a true Minnesotan.

 

19 hours ago, Raxie said:

 

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Don't eat your feelings!

I was literally eating a snack when I got this notification.

 

18 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

Actually a good strategy. That's the opposite of bottling them up.

I think I'll give it a try.

 

17 hours ago, Cheetah said:

 

It would be easy on uke except one of those three chords is E.

UkeOpenChords-E.jpg

 

It's just not a direction your pinkie finger was thinking about going when it got up this morning.

I have this reaction to every chord.

 

14 hours ago, EmeraldEagle said:

 

But maybe don't sledgehammer the person you're mad at? People generally don't like it when you do that and will probably make your life more complicated in the long term.

Good advice.  :) 

 

7 hours ago, jmk said:

Here for hugs!

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Thanks.  Glad to see you back around.

 

5 hours ago, Rab397 said:

Here to remind you not to eat your feelings.

and sledgehammer shit, that always works for me. Or if you habe a big log and an axe. hit the one on the other. Or buy a punching bag, for an added workout emotion relief element.

Thanks!  I do have a heavy bag in the garage... except we didn't fill it with anything heavy...so it's more like a lightbag.

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Level: 19 Ranger | STR 36 | DEX 29 | STA  35 | CON  43 | WIS 35 | CHA 23|

 

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Accountibillibuddies: Doodlies setting the world alight

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I am not saying I am Wonder Woman. I am just saying no one has ever seen me and Wonder Woman together in the same room.

 

Current Challenge: Shello Finally Fitnesses (sort of) and does some other things

Challenges: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 789, 10, 11, 12 , 131415, 1617181920, 21, 2223242526272829303132, 33, 3435, 36??

Starting weight = 290.4; Current weight = 269; Total pounds lost: 21.4

 

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Week 0 Day 2

 

I'm fairly certain I did not eat my feelings.  I did however have a migraine to feed so the lines got a little blurry.  I had a counseling session midday so I grabbed some Jimmy Johns while I was out.  Breakfast was only an orange.  I didn't eat at all in the afternoon and then my migraine hit.  I figured I would hit the local gym for some low key cardio hoping to walk the migraine off but it intensified past being able to do that.   At home I went and hid in a dark room for some rest.  I was hungry but it wasn't worth actually getting up to get anything.  By the time I did I was famished and just made a box of Kraft mac and cheese and ate the entire thing.  Despite all thatnI only finished the day 45 calories over target.  That certainly deserves a passterisk.  The only goal I managed was my sleep goal but the migraine just got in the way of everything so everything gets a passterisk! 

 

Workouts:  - * OOOOO

Steps:         O*OOOOO

Food:          O*OOOOO

Sleep:         OOOOOOO

Bujo tasks O*OOOOO

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Race: Amazonian Ogre Princess | Class: Ranger | Profession: SuperHero

Level: 19 Ranger | STR 36 | DEX 29 | STA  35 | CON  43 | WIS 35 | CHA 23|

 

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Accountibillibuddies: Doodlies setting the world alight

Roadmaps: 2016 | 2017 | 2018 | 2019 | 2020 | 2021

 

I am not saying I am Wonder Woman. I am just saying no one has ever seen me and Wonder Woman together in the same room.

 

Current Challenge: Shello Finally Fitnesses (sort of) and does some other things

Challenges: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 789, 10, 11, 12 , 131415, 1617181920, 21, 2223242526272829303132, 33, 3435, 36??

Starting weight = 290.4; Current weight = 269; Total pounds lost: 21.4

 

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3 minutes ago, LadyShello said:

Breakfast was only an orange. 

 

3 minutes ago, LadyShello said:

I did however have a migraine  At home I went and hid in a dark room for some rest. 

 

Citrus is the primary migraine trigger for my aunt. She can't even go into a room an orange has been peeled in without getting a migraine later. Something to consider?

 

Well done for not eating your feelings even though you had to migraine on top of everything else. You are superb.

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Hope a good night's sleep helps you recover from your migrane! They can be brutal! 

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Based in Melbourne, Australia

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