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11 hours ago, Harriet said:

That sounds like a wonderful group.

It is.

4 hours ago, Heidi said:

Sounds like a wonderful group -- I'm glad you were able to be vulnerable and safe and heard, and am not surprised that you inspired others by modeling this. I think this will be a powerful group for you.

Enduring well is about enduring in a peaceful state, finding the way to peace while enduring.  This is sacred work. I'm glad you are not alone.

❤️

There is a lot of toxic masculinity being quietly dropped in favor of wholesome masculinity in this group.

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Saw a new job pop up on LinkedIn. Hit the apply button and kept getting loops of "you need an account to apply" and not getting to a place to create an account. I ended up calling the local HR person who listened to the problem, then simply said, "Just email me your resume." 25 minutes after I sent it I got asked to come in for an interview tomorrow.

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3 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

Saw a new job pop up on LinkedIn. Hit the apply button and kept getting loops of "you need an account to apply" and not getting to a place to create an account. I ended up calling the local HR person who listened to the problem, then simply said, "Just email me your resume." 25 minutes after I sent it I got asked to come in for an interview tomorrow.

 

That is awesome news. And that HR person will have made a note in your file that you took the time to find a phone number and make a call. This makes you stand out in a very good way.

 

Good luck tomorrow!

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My dude, you are officially Going Through It.  ❤️  I pray that the release you felt in your new group and the upcoming interview are the beginning of things turning around. We're all fricking proud of you, if we haven't mentioned that lately!!

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4 hours ago, Scaly Freak said:

 

That is awesome news. And that HR person will have made a note in your file that you took the time to find a phone number and make a call. This makes you stand out in a very good way.

 

Good luck tomorrow!

That is my thinking as well. I found the local office's number off of google maps, and actually called the wrong office first (there are two). I was proud of myself for problem solving, and if they ask any of those "how did you overcome difficulty" questions at the interview, that's going to be my example for sure.

4 hours ago, SkyGirl said:

My dude, you are officially Going Through It.  ❤️  I pray that the release you felt in your new group and the upcoming interview are the beginning of things turning around. We're all fricking proud of you, if we haven't mentioned that lately!!

Thank you so much, I appreciate it.

1 hour ago, Sovalis said:

Hope the interview tomorrow goes smoothly! 

Me too!

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8 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

Saw a new job pop up on LinkedIn. Hit the apply button and kept getting loops of "you need an account to apply" and not getting to a place to create an account. I ended up calling the local HR person who listened to the problem, then simply said, "Just email me your resume." 25 minutes after I sent it I got asked to come in for an interview tomorrow.

 

Nice! Maybe it was a test. To see who still knew how to pick up the phone, and had the initiative to do so. Or maybe they have no idea that their application process is so tricky, and weep bitterly every night about the lack of applicants.

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On 6/8/2023 at 4:59 PM, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

Saw a new job pop up on LinkedIn. Hit the apply button and kept getting loops of "you need an account to apply" and not getting to a place to create an account. I ended up calling the local HR person who listened to the problem, then simply said, "Just email me your resume." 25 minutes after I sent it I got asked to come in for an interview tomorrow.

Wow, I love everything about this.

How do you feel about the company?
How was the interview?

Sending so many good thoughts.

❤️ 

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19 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

That is my thinking as well. I found the local office's number off of google maps, and actually called the wrong office first (there are two). I was proud of myself for problem solving, and if they ask any of those "how did you overcome difficulty" questions at the interview, that's going to be my example for sure.

 

It certainly should be. Please let us know how it went! I was thinking about you earlier today and hoping for great interview outcomes.

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“I've always believed that failure is non-existent. What is failure? You go to the end of the season, then you lose the Super Bowl. Is that failing? To most people, maybe. But when you're picking apart why you failed, and now you're learning from that, then is that really failing? I don't think so." - Kobe Bryant, 1978-2020. Rest in peace, great warrior.

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23 hours ago, Harriet said:

 

Nice! Maybe it was a test. To see who still knew how to pick up the phone, and had the initiative to do so. Or maybe they have no idea that their application process is so tricky, and weep bitterly every night about the lack of applicants.

I seriously doubt it was intentional. The people who interviewed me seemed not to know anything about it.

7 hours ago, Heidi said:

Wow, I love everything about this.

How do you feel about the company?
How was the interview?

Sending so many good thoughts.

❤️

I feel good about the company, they seem to do more than the minimum to care for clients on the bereavement end, which is indicative of healthy standards and practices. The interview went really well. Whatever happens, I gave a good interview, and feel better both about the company and the interview itself than the other one I did.

4 hours ago, Scaly Freak said:

 

It certainly should be. Please let us know how it went! I was thinking about you earlier today and hoping for great interview outcomes.

Thank you.

 

As I replied to Heidi, the interview went really well. I'm hoping to get this, both because I want out of my current situation but more importantly because I'm excited about the opportunity. I didn't hear anything yet, but as the interview was at 4PM on a Friday, that's not a source for concern. I hope to hear something next week. Sra. Tanque and I had a date night, at least as much of one as we can when I have to work that night. We went out to a nice restaurant and had a good meal.

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14 minutes ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

As I replied to Heidi, the interview went really well. I'm hoping to get this, both because I want out of my current situation but more importantly because I'm excited about the opportunity.

 

That is even more awesome. I will continue to hope for good things for you out of this opportunity. 

 

Date night is even more awesome. All couples need these. :) 

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“I've always believed that failure is non-existent. What is failure? You go to the end of the season, then you lose the Super Bowl. Is that failing? To most people, maybe. But when you're picking apart why you failed, and now you're learning from that, then is that really failing? I don't think so." - Kobe Bryant, 1978-2020. Rest in peace, great warrior.

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13 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

Whatever happens, I gave a good interview, and feel better both about the company and the interview itself than the other one I did.

Excellent.

I like this very much.

No matter what happens, the Universe is dropping reminders and opportunities for you to flex your discernment and you are responding, not reacting. All of this is Just Right.

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16 hours ago, Tanktimus the Encourager said:

both because I want out of my current situation but more importantly because I'm excited about the opportunity

 

This sounds super healthy and I'm so hopeful for you.  :) 

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Great news on the interview Tank. I have my fingers crossed that it works out for you!

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On 6/10/2023 at 12:00 AM, Scaly Freak said:

 

That is even more awesome. I will continue to hope for good things for you out of this opportunity. 

 

Date night is even more awesome. All couples need these. :) 

Couples do need date night.

On 6/10/2023 at 12:44 PM, Heidi said:

Excellent.

I like this very much.

No matter what happens, the Universe is dropping reminders and opportunities for you to flex your discernment and you are responding, not reacting. All of this is Just Right.

Exactly.

On 6/10/2023 at 3:49 PM, SkyGirl said:

 

This sounds super healthy and I'm so hopeful for you.  :) 

I'm hopeful too.

On 6/10/2023 at 4:42 PM, Rhovaniel said:

Great news on the interview Tank. I have my fingers crossed that it works out for you!

Me too, thanks.

 

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