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So, this conversation just happened...

I was helping a coworker and looking for a file on my computer. He saw my background on my PC, which is this:

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He then tells me, "You need to get a hobby." To which I replied, "I have one. This is it." Then he had the audacity to say "Well, you need to get a new hobby then."

WTF?!?!?! Getting healthy and strong isn't a good hobby?

I think I sense some jealousy here... Which is too bad, cause I thought he was a pretty chill guy. Why do people say things like this? ARGH! Sometimes I hate working in an office environment. I wish I could just work at or own a gym, make lots of money, and LIFT ALL THE HEAVY THINGS all day! *le sigh*

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So you don't know him that well? Seems out of line to me. He's probably threatened by women who lift. Start posting your PRs on lifts in your workspace.

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I feel for you, I really do. I have several people like this around me. Ignore them. It's jealously.

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So you don't know him that well? Seems out of line to me. He's probably threatened by women who lift. Start posting your PRs on lifts in your workspace.

OOOOOOOOHHHHH, I think I will do this! I'm gonna buy a little white board and post it up right behind me so everyone will see it.

you can say: "i took your advice and my new hobby is being strong enough to be able to crush you like a rusty coke can, so... what do you bench?"

I like this. :)

We should open the nerdfitness gym franchise?

YES! ALL THE YESSES! I wish someone would make this happen!

He's just a dick. Who doesn't support someones hobby, regardless of what it is?

Don't worry Angela, we think your hobby is awesome!

d'awwww... thanks.

UGH. I work with people like this, namely mrs "you're gonna become a big fat housefrau". Some days you just wanna hulk smash people. *sigh*

HULK SMASH STUPID PEOPLE!

Thanks guys. It really does help to have such a great online community.

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Snatch: 93kg/205lb // Clean and Jerk: 113kg/248lb // Back Squat: 170kg/375lb

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2015 USAW American Open - 8th place
2015 USAW Senior Nationals - 9th place
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2013 USAW Senior Nationals - 9th place

 

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Aw, that sucks, Angela. But, obviously ignore him!

Yesterday, I told a friend I was jealous of his muscles and was working hard on getting stronger. He asked why, and I said "Because I want to be strong and able". His reply?

"Hmmmm, girls should act like girls".

Well, I'll make sure to hold my petticoats daintily as I HULK SMASH YOU INTO THE GROUND!

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you can say: "i took your advice and my new hobby is being strong enough to be able to crush you like a rusty coke can, so... what do you bench?"

Sounds like the guy is a giant tool & is intimidated, so I agree with ETFnerd, intimidate him some more!!!!!

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Well, I'll make sure to hold my petticoats daintily as I HULK SMASH YOU INTO THE GROUND!

^^^ this is the awesome.

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My hobby is driving slowly around schools in a white unmarked panel van and pointing a big camera out the window. Please support me :P

Your name isn't by coincedence is it Mr Kombiman.

Angela, we know your hobby is awesome.

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In these situations I used to get very angry, rudeness is just not acceptable. I now heckle them instead.

Them 'you need a new hobby'

Me 'boooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, you should cut down on your pork pies mate and get some exercise'

My wife and all you beautiful, heavy lifting nerd ladies out there are amazing and don't forget it.

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Grab the person, pull them real close and whisper this in their ear... :encouragement:

(apology if the language in it offends, mods please delete if necessary)

Dude... Where did that quote come from? It was pretty sweet, and now I need to memorize it for when I leave being a "benchmark to change ... habits" and become "a f****ing tribute to human will."

(please excuse the edits for conciseness and language (it doesn't offend me, I just prefer not to use it))

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Dude... Where did that quote come from? It was pretty sweet ....

http://www.djixas.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/0_Some_people_just_need_some_inspiration-s2041x1275-171007.png and I think I've seen it somewhere on youtube, too -- and maybe a few other places. Not sure where it started.

I need one aimed at straight women (because, frankly, I don't care if my girlfriend is checking you out -- I'm not interested in her anyway).

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Grab the person, pull them real close and whisper this in their ear... :encouragement:

(apology if the language in it offends, mods please delete if necessary)

I have this quote also, except mine looks like this [ATTACH=CONFIG]3879[/ATTACH]

Well, I'll make sure to hold my petticoats daintily as I HULK SMASH YOU INTO THE GROUND!

Ha ha ha! This made me laugh out loud! I applaud you Sambalina

Angela, The path of fitness isn't a hobby, a hobby is something you do to distract you from all of the work and can be seemingly pointless in the long run (ie video games), however Fitness is a Path to improving one's life, making one better than who they are at this moment. The very fact that this guy sees this as a hobby shows that he doesn't care too much about his own life, nor improving it. To demote your fitness to something like a 'hobby' shows ignorance and fear, nothing more.

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Angela, The path of fitness isn't a hobby, a hobby is something you do to distract you from all of the work and can be seemingly pointless in the long run (ie video games), however Fitness is a Path to improving one's life, making one better than who they are at this moment. The very fact that this guy sees this as a hobby shows that he doesn't care too much about his own life, nor improving it. To demote your fitness to something like a 'hobby' shows ignorance and fear, nothing more.

In my opinion weight and other training to be more functional, age well, and resist injury = critical self-improvement.

Running a marathon, benching 300 lbs, squatting 2xBW, one-arm pull ups, etc = hobby. A hobby that is good for you if gone about intelligently , but a hobby.

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Wow! Thanks for all of this, my fellow rebels!!! I just love this place.

Angela, The path of fitness isn't a hobby, a hobby is something you do to distract you from all of the work and can be seemingly pointless in the long run (ie video games), however Fitness is a Path to improving one's life, making one better than who they are at this moment. The very fact that this guy sees this as a hobby shows that he doesn't care too much about his own life, nor improving it. To demote your fitness to something like a 'hobby' shows ignorance and fear, nothing more.

^this. You nailed it.

90+ Masters Weightlifter

Current Lift PRs
Snatch: 93kg/205lb // Clean and Jerk: 113kg/248lb // Back Squat: 170kg/375lb

Spoiler

 

2016 USAW Senior Nationals - 6th place

2015 USAW American Open - 8th place
2015 USAW Senior Nationals - 9th place
2014 USAW Senior Nationals - 9th place

2013 USAW Senior Nationals - 9th place

 

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