Lilith Posted January 10, 2016 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2016 That doesn't sound weak, it's a factor to acknowledge. Still I think it would not harm to keep eyes and ears open for alternatives. You'd cope better than you think, look how well you coped with a whole new country and everything!!It would just give you some more power back to know there are alternatives. You could still stay where you are, but dealing with her might be easier with that in the back of your mindBest luck on your screenYes you are right. I will start looking around, casually. You never know the dreamspot for the dreamprice might be out there. Or it might not. I won't dedicate a lot of time to it, but you are right, if only to feel like I am not a cornered mouse and knowing I have options. If she threatens to kick you out then you report her for renting illegally - she has more to lose than you. And it sounds like she doesn't listen to what you say, so it's a waste of effort trying to discuss anything with her. Also I wonder whether her real reason she encourages her tenants to go explore the city on the weekend is because she likes having the house to herself more of the time. I bet as soon as you're gone she puts some Spice Girls tunes on real loud and dances around the house dressed up in her favourite 90s outfits.This must be it LOL I second this advise. Haha Dan must be right! I'd start ignoring her too. If you don't engage in conversation she won't be able to attack you. If you don't want to go out you really shouldn't just because she says so. Even if it's not your house, it's still your home for the time being and you have to be able to feel like it is during your stay. SymphonicDan yes you are probably absolutely right! But then I wish she'd just be honest because I'd join her in the spicegirl dance! So you guys are right. I will stop going out just for her. That said, I do want to try to go out every weekend, even for just an hour because I do think it's nicer for me too. But just because I think it's nice, and I won't stay out for an entire day if I don't feel like it! I will just be nice and leave things clean and do my best but you guys made me see it is not okay for her to decide on what I do in my own time! 2 Quote Level 7 Assassin Cat - Meow! Battle Log: http://rebellion.nerdfitness.com/index.php?/topic/70410-lilith-the-assassin-cats-journey/ Current Challenge: http://rebellion.nerdfitness.com/index.php?/topic/76383-lilith%E2%80%99s-epically-epic-quest-and-goatz/ Link to comment
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