annyshay Posted May 15, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 15, 2017 Week 4? Sure, I'm ready... 5 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
annyshay Posted May 17, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 17, 2017 Cross-post from Battle Log... I've hit a patch of not wanting to do a damn thing. Help! Luckily my routines are strong and I'm cooking for myself, but can you guys help me with my mental funk? 7 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
SymphonicDan Posted May 17, 2017 Report Share Posted May 17, 2017 Me too! But we can't help you - this is the secret Boss Fight where the enemy isn't strong but just convinces you that it's not worth fighting. And it invites you to go grab doughnuts, or watch YouTube videos for 4 hours, or whatever your weak spot is... Maybe you need to rediscover some motivation? Remember why you wanted to do those damned things that you're not doing, imagine what you'd like annyshay level 21 to be like - would she do what you're doing now? It could also be that you need more sleep, social time, water or to write out your thoughts to clear space in your mind for getting things done. Ironically and hypocritically, I'm procrastinating getting my stuff done by posting this 6 Quote Level 25 Cyborg Assassin [ STR 36.75 | DEX 26.00 | STA 28.00 | CON 31.25 | WIS 29.25 | CHA 24.50 ] current 5-week challenge: March 2020 external websites with my resources for... fitness & breathwork | mental math & mind sports | motivation & productivity Link to post
MrsVan Posted May 17, 2017 Report Share Posted May 17, 2017 2 hours ago, SymphonicDan said: Me too! But we can't help you - this is the secret Boss Fight where the enemy isn't strong but just convinces you that it's not worth fighting. And it invites you to go grab doughnuts, or watch YouTube videos for 4 hours, or whatever your weak spot is... I felt like this 2-3 weeks ago. I can't tell you what to do, I just tried to convince myself to do one thing for that day, other than the normal routine and cooking. Just one thing, no more, but at least keep to your routine and cooking too. And sending you loads and loads of hugs and encouragement 2 Quote Mrs.Van Starting from Scratch 🦸 👱♀️ Link to post
MichiruSedai Posted May 18, 2017 Report Share Posted May 18, 2017 I wish I knew a good answer. When I get like that one of two things happens: 1. I stop doing everything useful and backslide 2. I keep doing what I should do even though I don't want to, and eventually funk goes away good luck *hugs* 2 Quote Level: 15 Race: Human Class: Adventurer (Sailor Senshi/Aes Sedai) STR: 14 DEX: 12 STA: 16 CON: 28 WIS: 26 CHA: 15 (unspent points: 6? challenges worth) Weight Loss Progress (SW 12/5/15 272) Mini-Goal: Get back down to my low 152.2 - SW 6/1/17 170.4 - CW 6/10/17: 166.6 regained the last few months - back on track losing in June My Battle Log|My NF Character Sheet Challenges: 1/16-2/16-3/16-4/16-5/16-6/16-7/16-8/16-9/16-11/16-12/16-1/17-2/17- Link to post
annyshay Posted May 18, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 18, 2017 Went out swing dancing because I've gotten friends to go with me. That's my thing for today and was quite fun. What I really need is a vacation, but in the interim... yes, I'm trying to stay on top of sleep, water, journaling, and other self care. I'm actually not really falling behind there. It's amazing how often my feeling behind is all in my own expectations of myself. I tend to go with #2 above, MichiruSedai, but am trying to be careful of "shoulds" so I don't slip into perfectionism and inevitable burn out. So, basically, I think I want to keep doing my best and being patient with the natural ups and downs in my mood and energy. Thanks as always for the support, rebels! 3 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
MrsVan Posted May 18, 2017 Report Share Posted May 18, 2017 3 hours ago, annyshay said: It's amazing how often my feeling behind is all in my own expectations of myself. Yip! I had a mild panic moment, then wrote out all I've managed to do the last three weeks and gave myself some perspective. 3 hours ago, annyshay said: Went out swing dancing because I've gotten friends to go with me. That's my thing for today and was quite fun. Woot! Woot! Glad you had a good time. 2 Quote Mrs.Van Starting from Scratch 🦸 👱♀️ Link to post
Lara Posted May 20, 2017 Report Share Posted May 20, 2017 On 17/5/2017 at 1:42 PM, annyshay said: I've hit a patch of not wanting to do a damn thing. Help! Luckily my routines are strong and I'm cooking for myself, but can you guys help me with my mental funk? I can't give you any help, unfortunately. I've been feeling like this for some time now and I don't seem to be able to find any motivation. All I can say is that I understand you, and that I am sorry, because it is not nice to feel like that. 2 Quote The Wolverine - Level 5 // BER 6.5 // HEA 4 // STR 4.4 // STA 3 // DEX 4 // CON 4 // WIS 4.75 // CHA 1 He who conquers others is strong; he who conquers himself is mighty. Adventures don't start until you get into the forest. Link to post
annyshay Posted May 20, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2017 1 hour ago, zenLara said: I can't give you any help, unfortunately. I've been feeling like this for some time now and I don't seem to be able to find any motivation. All I can say is that I understand you, and that I am sorry, because it is not nice to feel like that. Hope we both find a lighter feeling soon. Hugs! 1 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
annyshay Posted May 20, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2017 4 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
WolfDreamer Posted May 21, 2017 Report Share Posted May 21, 2017 On 5/17/2017 at 7:42 AM, annyshay said: I've hit a patch of not wanting to do a damn thing. Help! Luckily my routines are strong and I'm cooking for myself, but can you guys help me with my mental funk? 3 Quote Who am I? -- My NF Character Current Challenge: WolfDreamer Returns to Middle Earth Past Challenges: Spoiler Winter is Coming, Wolfen Strengthens His Heart, Body, Mind, and Spirit, Wolfen Becomes One of the People, Wolfen Strengthens His Chakras, Wolfen Welcomes Summer and Gets Primal, Soulcon and Spartan, Wolfen Develops Mental Toughness, Wolfen Joins the Wander Society, Soulcon, Spartan, School, and Stranger Things, Wolfen Becomes a Warrior Elite, Wolfen Goes Here and There and Back Again, Wolfen Becomes a Soulcon Warrior Elite, Wolfen Returns to His Roots, Wolfen Wanders in Soul, Spirit, and Body, Wolfen Owns the Day, Wolfen Searches for His Wild Heart, Wolfen Runs for His Life, Wolfen Hits the Trails, Wolfen Becomes an Explorer and Joins the Resistance, Wolfen Goes Back to the Source, Wolfen Begins the Hero's Journey, WolfDreamer Returns to the People, WolfDreamer Pushes Back, WolfDreamer Prioritizes, Burpees, Books, and Brainwork, Burpees, Books, Brainwork, and Bodywork, WolfDreamer Masters the Four Elements, WolfDreamer Continues to Master the Four Elements, WolfDreamer Returns to Sparta, WolfDreamer Returns to Middle Earth, WolfDreamer Continues His Middle Earth Adventure, WolfDreamer and the Fall, WolfDreamer Forges His Own Path, WolfDreamer Has Hope “I'd rather sing one wild song and burst my heart with it, than live a thousand years watching my digestion and being afraid of the wet.” -- Jack London “I wanted movement and not a calm course of existence. I wanted excitement and danger and the chance to sacrifice myself for my love.” -- Leo Tolstoy "I feel love rising in my chest again Rising like a burning sun into the day..." -- Gungor, "Hurricane" "...wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." 2 Corinthians 3:17b Link to post
MrsVan Posted May 21, 2017 Report Share Posted May 21, 2017 2 Quote Mrs.Van Starting from Scratch 🦸 👱♀️ Link to post
annyshay Posted May 22, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 22, 2017 CHALLENGE SUMMARY Explore - Journaling 100% Expand - Self Care 100% Embody - Katara - Boundaries 100% A+ = DING! LEVEL 20!!! 6 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
annyshay Posted May 22, 2017 Author Report Share Posted May 22, 2017 And with that... we head to the next temple... WATER! 3 Quote Love as thou wilt. Link to post
Lara Posted May 23, 2017 Report Share Posted May 23, 2017 A+!!!!!! 1 Quote The Wolverine - Level 5 // BER 6.5 // HEA 4 // STR 4.4 // STA 3 // DEX 4 // CON 4 // WIS 4.75 // CHA 1 He who conquers others is strong; he who conquers himself is mighty. Adventures don't start until you get into the forest. Link to post
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