What to Do After You Injure Yourself

[Taylot]

Crap.

Things were going SO well.  You had been exercising regularly, eating right, building habits, and building SERIOUS momentum...and then life throws you a curveball:

    
• You slip a disc in your back
      
• You tear a ligament in your knee
      
• You get mono or some other sickness
      
• You sprain your ankle
      
• Your
  
  

Although it probably seems like the world is over at this point, fear not, my dear Rebel friend, for there is hope. With the exception of your head falling off (we'll put this in the S.O.L. category), everything else above is something you can work around.

Today, I'm going to help you keep the momentum you've worked so hard to build, stay on target, and allow yourself the time to rehab so that you can hit the ground running when your body is ready.

Think of this like your emergency "What to do when the wheels fall off" post.

NOTE: I am not a doctor (in fact, I'm not even wearing pants right now).  This article contains the thoughts and observations from a nerd who has dealt with this stuff and helped thousands of others deal with these things too.




Take a Deep breath


First and foremost, relax.

It is NOT the end of the world.

You're reading this, which means you're still alive.  This is a good thing.  As they say, every day above ground is a good day.

So, no freaking out.  No complaining.  No crying over spilt milk.

No worrying about the past, as there's nothing you can do about it, no matter how much it hurts. 

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What's done is done.  Think of it like a video game that suddenly has the difficulty cranked to Legendary.  You're still playing, it's just more of a challenge now.

You will overcome this obstacle.  You will come out the other side a stronger, wiser, and better looking version of yourself.  You will level up.

Got it?  GOOD.  Up and at them.


Get a proper diagnosis


First and foremost, check with your doctor or physical therapist and get a proper diagnosis.

I was an idiot and ignored my lower back pain for close to a decade, assuming it was from my posture, sitting too much, or spending too much time traveling. It wasn't until last summer when I finally tweaked it pretty dang good while lifting that I knew something was wrong.

So I stopped lifting weights for a few months. Finally a few months later, I went to a doctor and got x-rays.

It turns out, I have a spinal condition where my L4 and L5 vertebrae don't line up, and I had to take a few months off from any serious lifting.

So, don't do what I did. Get a proper diagnosis from a professional as soon as possible, and find out exactly what's wrong, how long you can expect to be recuperating, and when you will be back to normal.


Focus on your diet


I get a few emails a week from people who are really worried about gaining a bunch of weight during the rehab process.

This is a valid concern, as it happens to the best of us. 

We stop exercising, we start eating poorly, and the next thing we know, we've gained back all of the weight that we had lost.

(to keep that weight off)!!!

As we ALL know at Nerd Fitness, our diets account for 80-90% of our success or failure when it comes to weight loss.  This means that even if you cannot exercise ONE BIT, you will still be able to maintain your weight or even LOSE weight during your recovery period.

Now, the only way this will work is if you actually focus on your diet.  If you can't exercise (or have to significantly reduce your amount of exercise), then your diet immediately increases in importance.

Don't forget, your body burns a crazy amount calories every day just by existing.

So work WITH your body.

Minimize liquid calories. Load up on veggies. Eat plenty of protein and healthy fats.  Cut out refined carbs and sugar.

The more closely you can follow the Paleo Diet with your eating decisions, the less chance you'll have of gaining back weight and pushing you further back on your progress.

Yup, easier said then done when you're lying in bed and want to eat ice cream while watching Lord of the Rings.  I never said this would be easy - nothing worth doing right IS easy.

You need to stay on target.  Remember that every meal is an opportunity for you to continue your momentum and progress, or take a step further away.  The choice is yours, and yours alone.


Stay active any way you can


I HIGHLY recommend you check with your doctor or physical therapist and find out what you are capable of while injured:

    
• If you can't run, can you use an elliptical or stationary bike?
      
• If you can't use one leg or the other, can you still strength train your upper body?
      
• If you can't use one arm/shoulder, can you still do lower body exercises like lunges/squats/step ups?
      
• If you can't strength train, can you still go for walks? Walking is the best.
      
• If your head fell off, how the hell are you reading this?
  

No need to play hero.  The WORST thing you can do is try to do something your body isn't capable of and re-injuring yourself (or injuring yourself in another way).

So, find out what you're capable of, what you can't do, what hurts and what doesn't, and work with your doctor/therapist to find any way to stay active.  I don't care what it is, but find a way to do something active every day.

And it's not just because exercise (SPOILER ALERT) is good for you! It's because if you can find a way to exercise every day, your brain will keep thinking "I am healthy" and thus you will be more likely to make eating decisions that KEEP you healthy.

Remember, diet is 90% of the battle!

I know if I skip a workout or two, I tend to eat much worse on those days because my brain isn't thinking "healthy."

So, keep yourself thinking healthy, find a way to be active, and make a game out of it to stay on target.

    
• Stuck in bed? See how many arm swings you can do.
      
• Can't do jumping jacks? Do karate kicks and punches
      
• On cruches? See if you can "walk" a bit farther each day.  Or,
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• Can't strength train? See if you can become a better runner.
  

Yeah, it might be different than how you used to train, or even be a fraction of what you used to be capable of.  Who cares?  Life is a game, and you just switched up your skill tree, that's all!


What if I'm never back to normal!?


Unfortunately, sometimes you might get an injury in which your training path is permanently altered.

When I found out about my back and that I would probably never be able to lift heavy weights again, I was devastated. Luckily, I came home, turned on Iron Man, and instantly decided to remake myself like Tony Stark.

About a month and a half ago I was cleared to start squatting and deadlifting again.  Although I had to start at a very humbling beginning weight, I've been adding more and more each week, slowly but surely making progress.  I don't know if I'll ever reach my previous personal bests, but I'm excited to find out what I am capable of.

I've heard story after story from people who were told they'd never _________ again, only to have them doing those things years later due to their dedication.

So if this happens to be you, remember first and foremost that you woke up today, and that we can build on that.

Think of it like you were playing a role playing game (RPG) as a Warrior, and suddenly you have to shift your class to Druid, Monk, or Wizard.  It's not necessarily any worse or better than before, you're just playing the game in a different way.  You might suck at your old skills now, but that just means you can unlock new skills!

For my six months after the spinal diagnosis, I shifted my focus from heavy training to gymnastics, handstands, and bodyweight training.

The game has just changed a bit, which means you need to change too.

Change is good.


Set proper expectations


This part is all mental.

Depending on the severity of your injury, you might get set back a few weeks/months in training.  If it's a permanent change, you may have to make permanent adjustments to your routine.

You might not be able to lift, run, or stretch in the same ways right away. Even when you come back to full strength, it can be really frustrating.


"I used to be able to do this!" "Why can't I ___________ anymore?"
Just like comparing yourself against the progress of others is a futile practice, comparing yourself to the old pre-injury version of yourself isn't smart.

The ONLY thing you can compare yourself against is who you were yesterday.  Think of it like hitting the reset button and starting a new game or rolling a new character.

    
• If you went from deadlifting 350 before your injury and now you're back at 150....stop worrying about the 350, and instead next week aim for 155. THAT IS PROGRESS!!  
      
• If you weighed 200 before the injury and 220 after the injury...getting down to 219 is one pound lost, not playing 19 pounds of catch-up!
      
• If you could run a mile in 7 minutes before and now it's 9 minutes, next week's 8:50 mile should be a celebration, not a disappointment.
  

Understand that the process might take time, but also understand that you're a freaking superhero capable of amazing things, even when you're told otherwise.

Write your own destiny. Chose to be awesome. 


This too, shall pass


You're gonna be okay, I promise.

Hit that reset button, and focus on building up a new version of you starting NOW.

I'd love to hear from you.  Have you been injured in the past? Are you struggling with this right now? How did you overcome that injury and get back on track? How can I help out?

I know a lot of injured Rebels would could benefit from the education, motivation, and inspiration from knowing they're not alone in their frustration and confusion.

Get well soon, and rebel on!

-Steve

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[I-Jo]

I seriously needed to read this.  Thanks for throwing this in here.

 

My mental health is intrinsically tied to working out- I feel 100% worthless if I cannot workout and I'm injured.  With another injury that I'm not sure what to do about- I'm going to have to start over... it's crushing and depressing.  But it's not over. There will be ways to move onward and upwards.

 

Just need to figure it out. 

 

#hatebeingbroken

 

yes- I just hashtagged- sue me. 

[WifeyB]

Loved this post so much I even emailed it to my boss. I'm not dealing with a recent injury, but found so much inspiration in the frame of mind conveyed.

... And I'm secretly wishing I could dance like that guy... Wow!

[Dfox]

Great topic to post!

 

Having a torn Labrum ( its a fibrocartilagenous rim that exists to help keep the shoulder stable in the socket ) I know this feeling very well! Now being given the option to undergo a serious shoulder re-construction which would have me out of action for 6-12 months was a very depressing piece of news to take in, and it hit me alright..

 

My training came to a screaming halt, my diet got chucked out the window, and i got lazy, quick...

 

Some time past like this, these were not good times.

 

After finally accepting that i was now limited in what i could achieve rehab began for me, this is what I had to do to keep myself from getting really down in the dumps, sucessfully for me it worked!

 

Now i havent been seriously training for a while and im just getting back into it, but taking that time to heal, FOCUS ON MY DIET, and recover was the pathway to getting back in the game.

 

I just did my first serious workout last night and although i can feel a little bit of a niggle in that bogus shoulder, i feel great for being able to achieve it!

 

You can recover from injuries, just make sure you give it time and respect your body along the way.

[porchcricket13]

Things seriously seem to get posted here as I need them. Keeping this on hand for the duration of my recovery. It's gonna be a long one.

[FrankieNZ]

Top post. Nothing makes me feel like my world is unravelling quite like being injured, getting sick and not being able to train. My brain decides if I'm sitting round doing nothing that it is hungry and wants bad foods! But definitely agree even when not able to train you can still eat like an athlete and it makes the world of difference, both to the waistline and to your mental health.

[Guzzi]

Wow, I needed this right now. I'm about to go to hospital for a couple of ops and Im staring down the barrel of 3 months in plaster.

Got to admit, I was kinda freaking out. But you're right. There's more than one way to skin a cat, and just because I can't work out doesn't mean everything has to come to a screeching halt. I just need to see it in a different light and work with what I have (or will have after the op).

I-Jo is right (as always) about self esteem being tied up with performance. What I do in the gym has become such a huge part of who I am, that I think I'll really struggle with my self image for a while, but I think I'm up to the challenge