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  1. WELCOME TO THE REBELLION

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      Not sure where to begin, need some help with something, or want to make a suggestion? This is the spot!

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    2. Rebel Introductions and the Respawn Point

      New to the Rebellion, or did something go wrong and you're Respawning? Welcome, soldier! Post your story here, your battle plans, and what you plan on bringing to the table.

       

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    3. Rebel Army Base Camp

      Talk about whatever the hell you want here. Well, almost anything :)

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  2. 5 WEEK CHALLENGES & DAILY BATTLE LOGS

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    3. Guilds, Clubs, Adventure Parties, and PVPs

      Looking for a party to adventure with, an accountibilibuddy, or want to create a PVP Challenge? This is the place! 

       

      Not sure where to start? Check out the how-to thread!

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    4. Daily Battle Logs and Epic Quests

      Working on your own Epic Quest? Or just looking for daily accountability? 

       

      Start your own thread and keep track of your workouts, food logs, and/or accomplishments here. Nothing says accountability like letting the world read what you're doing.

       

      *NOTE: Daily Battle Logs and challenges are completely independent of each other - you can have one or both.

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    • The way you embrace the complexity of your grandfather and your relationship with him is beautiful and I hope you really enjoy taking your time with the banjo, feeling free to be bad at it and knowing that you’re doing something wonderful anyway. 
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    • A new take on the Barny theme?   I loved him He loved me But he could be a raging ass With a bit of petty smite and a kiss from me to him Won't you hear my banjo too!
    • Hear hear. I'm in the same boat and have a similar focus of "just do what you do, that's the win" for excercise for next round. Solidarity.
    • Today I tackled some non-urgent to-do items on my list: 1. Call and schedule a hair appointment- I'm going in next Thursday!  2. Delete apps that don't spark joy-  I deleted 7 apps! 3. Turn off notifications for all apps that aren't time sensitive-I left on apps that are travel-related, health related, and text messages. Everything else is turned off.    I'm learning to play the banjo. I found a tutorial on you tube, and I like it a lot. I just woke up one day and thought "How can I be even whiter?" LOL. Seriously, though, my grandfather's banjo has been sitting in our house for a while. He left it to my brother who has his own banjo and no place to put a second banjo. So I was moving it out of the way so the visiting uncle didn't see it, because my grandfather did NOT want him to have it. He was very clear. And I took it out of the case, tuned it, and I just thought, "Well, now...I like this."  My relationship with my grandfather was okay. We got along, but he thought I should be married and cooking dinners for menfolk, and I finally told him some stories about first dates with different guys and he stopped bugging me about it. Then instead just told everyone I was his spinster granddaughter. "You know, the old maid" My grandfather also believed a person should be automatically amazing at a thing or else they were wasting their time being an idiot. HE was so impatient and critical.  So I'm taking my sweet, sweet time learning, and really enjoying it. I loved him, and he loved me, but what an asshole he could be. So you can understand there's something deeply satisfying about taking his banjo meant for my brother and learning to play it. It feels like I'm honoring him and annoying the shit out of him at the same time.     Thanks for hanging out with me today. I hope you have a good rest of your day.    
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    • I wasn't sure I wanted to click for cannibalism, but I'm happy I did!
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    • Bwahahaha!   Not that kind of regular.
    • Honestly this is my whole feeling about the situation, and I'm on the fence about continuing, even though the therapist (who has nothing to do with this whatsoever) is amazing.  I'm not buying any advance services, for certain, and you are a good friend to point this out. This is Wisdom. It's still not a sure bet, and this whole thing has left me feeling very swindled, to be honest.
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