MEN ONLY THREAD part two

[RisenPhoenix]

Meh. I keep shaving it. The itchy ness kills me. Any ways to get over this.

 

Shampoo and condition the hell out of your face.  Early on maybe even buy a lotion to throw down post-shower.  It helps soften the beard up and keep the itchyness at bay a bit.

 

I seem to have lucked out, because whenever I grow a beard it doesn't itch (though I will say it's scratchyness is what gets me more often than not).  I seemed to have obtained a "no itch" gene in a trade off for a "not very thick beard" gene.  I think I'll manage to cope with that tradeoff.

[Gainsdalf the Whey]

Meh. I keep shaving it. The itchy ness kills me. Any ways to get over this.

BBBOOOOOOOO!

[Frost of the Gloaming]

just go to the bathroom and scratch it like a fiend, you just need to let it get past that stage; have strength my friend

[Artinum]

SNAKE!!

It's been too quiet here without you.

[161803398874989]

Did we discuss hair that is not located on the head (head including face)?

[Guest CyborgNinja]

Hi all. I have the gear that qualifies me to post in this thread.

 

I'm kinda loling at all of this discussion of beards and such. I don't know why beards are such a big deal now when they're such a pain in the ass and it takes so much maintenance to keep them from looking like a hobo mane. Respect and admiration to those who have the genetics to grow a beastly beard but personally I'll pass.

 

Clean Shaven Crew, low maintenance hygiene 4 lyfe.

[Jstrain]

What's wrong with a hobo mane?

[Guest CyborgNinja]

What's wrong with a hobo mane?

 

Hey if that's your thing...

[monkcoder]

*wonders into this thread....*

 

I've got alot of reading to do now...

[Red1263]

I've always thought a Man looked Wiser/rougher/tougher/older when sporting an official beard or beard-like form

[spezzy]

Meh. I keep shaving it. The itchy ness kills me. Any ways to get over this.BBBOOOOOOOO!

I second the "boooooo!"

*runs out before everyone kicks her out*

(If this post seems brief or anything like that it's because I'm using my phone and don't want to type a lot )

[Wolfhorde]

Hi all. I have the gear that qualifies me to post in this thread.

 

I'm kinda loling at all of this discussion of beards and such. I don't know why beards are such a big deal now when they're such a pain in the ass and it takes so much maintenance to keep them from looking like a hobo mane. Respect and admiration to those who have the genetics to grow a beastly beard but personally I'll pass.

 

Clean Shaven Crew, low maintenance hygiene 4 lyfe.

Idk man, doing a clean shave takes me anywhere between 35 minutes and 70 and my skin is going to hate me for at least 4 days, I'd wager it to be similar for a lot of peeps with fast beard growth (and I don't have money to buy a shaving razor + EQ). I mean properly maintained full beard maybe but I'd say it depends. Stubble/shadow are low maintenance, acceptable in next to every professional situation and can definitely add some edge. 

Then again, I might be a bit biased as I think beards are kinda sexy.

 

I second the "boooooo!" [2]

[torpedotor]

Hi all. I have the gear that qualifies me to post in this thread.

 

I'm kinda loling at all of this discussion of beards and such. I don't know why beards are such a big deal now when they're such a pain in the ass and it takes so much maintenance to keep them from looking like a hobo mane. Respect and admiration to those who have the genetics to grow a beastly beard but personally I'll pass.

 

Clean Shaven Crew, low maintenance hygiene 4 lyfe.

I'm with you, CyborgNinja. Clean shaven is the easiest to maintain, and the most professional looking (which I need for right now). Plus, some girls just prefer a clean face. And I love the smooth feeling after a close shave.

[Harness]

Hey guys, I am doing this from my phone so it is going to be short and to the point. If any of you have gone through a divorce how did you deal with it? My soon to be ex and I were only married for 5 years and we don't have kids. She received the papers and I am awaiting her counter-proposal to the terms. I feel like I am in limbo. Her things are still at the apt as she is going to school in a different state so I get to see all of that crap as well as all of the pictures because I don't want to throw anything out that she may try to take. Things are as amicable as they can be but it still sucks balls (excuse the phrase). So far I have been keeping myself busy with work, gym, yoga, and meditation I figure that if I am going to be single again I should lose my marriage weight and it seems more positive than drinking or whoring, lol. So any hints, tips, or words of wisdom??? I have a history of depression and that is the last thing I want to deal with right now.

[Gainsdalf the Whey]

Hi all. I have the gear that qualifies me to post in this thread.

 

I'm kinda loling at all of this discussion of beards and such. I don't know why beards are such a big deal now when they're such a pain in the ass and it takes so much maintenance to keep them from looking like a hobo mane. Respect and admiration to those who have the genetics to grow a beastly beard but personally I'll pass.

 

Clean Shaven Crew, low maintenance hygiene 4 lyfe.

 

My beard is WAY more low maintenance than clean shaving. I only have to buzz with clippers twice a week (if that) and clean up the edges real quick (takes 15 seconds, don't even use shaving cream for it) with a wet razor every other day. Other than that I just rub my moisturizer in real quick after I brush my teeth and run the brush through it (once again, 15 seconds).  This is way better compared to the every other day full shave. AND, if you run a few days behind, you can barely tell, the beard is just a bit longer, but with shaving, you look like a hungover hobo with the stubble.

 

I second the "boooooo!"

*runs out before everyone kicks her out*

(If this post seems brief or anything like that it's because I'm using my phone and don't want to type a lot )

 

I know right! I thought I had scored some Spezzy brownie points. Bruce ate my brownie points....

[Frost of the Gloaming]

does anyone else get curls in their beard if they let it grow to long?

[torpedotor]

Hey guys, I am doing this from my phone so it is going to be short and to the point. If any of you have gone through a divorce how did you deal with it? My soon to be ex and I were only married for 5 years and we don't have kids. She received the papers and I am awaiting her counter-proposal to the terms. I feel like I am in limbo. Her things are still at the apt as she is going to school in a different state so I get to see all of that crap as well as all of the pictures because I don't want to throw anything out that she may try to take. Things are as amicable as they can be but it still sucks balls (excuse the phrase). So far I have been keeping myself busy with work, gym, yoga, and meditation I figure that if I am going to be single again I should lose my marriage weight and it seems more positive than drinking or whoring, lol. So any hints, tips, or words of wisdom??? I have a history of depression and that is the last thing I want to deal with right now.

Hey, man. Sorry to hear about your troubles. I have not gone through a divorce, so I can't give you really good personal-experience advice. Just wanted to say that we're here for you if you need to talk/vent anytime. If you're a man of faith, hopefully you can find some solace in that. Otherwise, I would just say find some friends near you that can help support you whenever you feel like you're getting depressed. Anytime I've dealt with depression, it's been good to have friends nearby that I could talk to or just hang out with to get my mind off of things. Wish I could help more.

[Frost of the Gloaming]

That's really all you can do, and don't get to down on yourself just remember due to the impermanence of life everything ends, so just keep on going and make some new beginnings

[Wolfhorde]

^ Agreed. Cherish it for what it was but let bygones be bygones. Not to say that you can't feel sorrow for a while but with a history of depression it's probably better not focussing too much on it, keeping busy is probably not a bad idea - working out can definitely be good in these situations.

Spending time with people you cherish is also always a good antidote to anything 'negative', if you feel you're up for it you can also try to meet new people, get into something new or something of the like. A lot of people seem to have an easier time beginning a 'new chapter' in their lives after such an event with actions that actually symbolize this change. I'd say doing things you enjoy and with which you can constructively deal with your feelings you can do no wrong. Be it talking about it, working out, taking martial arts/self-defense classes, doing extreme sports, organizing a potluck (so jealous about these things, largely unknown here) or whatever rocks your boat.

 

And since it doesn't seem like you're on the all too common "enemy" terms that's already an accomplishment, not sure what you could do about her (potential?) property ect. Maybe pack it (or at least the pictures ect. up)? That's something that's really hard to evaluate because it's always dependant on the person. Some seem fine with reminders around, some need some time 'disconnected' from them to gather themselves - if the latter is the case I'd say just be open about it, chances are she'll understand.

[Frost of the Gloaming]

I want to be an Aquabat, like I really want to run one of my races dressed up like them

[Nivek]

Hey guys, I am doing this from my phone so it is going to be short and to the point. If any of you have gone through a divorce how did you deal with it? My soon to be ex and I were only married for 5 years and we don't have kids. She received the papers and I am awaiting her counter-proposal to the terms. I feel like I am in limbo. Her things are still at the apt as she is going to school in a different state so I get to see all of that crap as well as all of the pictures because I don't want to throw anything out that she may try to take. Things are as amicable as they can be but it still sucks balls (excuse the phrase). So far I have been keeping myself busy with work, gym, yoga, and meditation I figure that if I am going to be single again I should lose my marriage weight and it seems more positive than drinking or whoring, lol. So any hints, tips, or words of wisdom??? I have a history of depression and that is the last thing I want to deal with right now.

Just lurking the man post and saw your troubles. I've been reading The Happiness Hypothesis.  Steve Kamb claims it changed his life.  I can see it's usefulness in situations like divorce.  To paraphrase, we create our own reality.  If I look at a life event as a negative or as a positive, in both cases I am right.  I know, too simplified.  I tend toward the depressed / glass half empty side of life and am trying to be more positive; I set the goal to read this book and apply its lessons.  Maybe it could help in your situation.  Again, sad to hear when a marriage doesn't work out; think about all the good times you can now have since you won't be fighting with ex. 

[Artinum]

I've not read the Happiness Hypothesis, but I get the general concept. I wrote a blog post about being positive (shamelessly plugging) a little while ago...

[Harness]

Thanks guys. I will definitely check out that book.

[bigm141414]

Men! Look what arrived today: 

 

 

 

Ain't it a beauty. 

[JonDixonYT]

Men! Look what arrived today: 

 

 

 

Ain't it a beauty.

I told the Mrs. that something like this would be a good gift for me if she's stuck.