Rebirth

[Esiege]

Hey fellow rebels, never been to introduce on myself on a forum before let alone join one. But after some time I feel it necessary to promote personal change in my life. 

 

The stats:

29 Male

ER Tech/Health Entrepeneur (fitness coach)

Looking to explore the world

 

Believe it or not I am an active gym goer and have been a gym rat for most of my life. Heavy weights and barbells and strength based exercises have always felt more home to me than anywhere else and it is my dream to become a lifestyle health coach. 

 

What does bring me here is Steves book level up your life, upon reading it I was faced with my reality or better yet lack thereof. Most of my time is spent in the hospital but my 6 days off which i get every week is spent sleeping or xbox (aside from gym every day). I have done so much in the past to help set a future trajectory (vision,board, goal list, numerous self help books) but always seem to lose steam 24 hours later, and I then find myself wandering back to the clan of underpants gnomes.  

 

So im happy to be part of a thriving community where I can ee other people's progress and help and learn and listen to others on their personal journey. 

 

My character has been created and I am ready to reverse engineer my life and looking to change the following:

 

1.Nofap: Maybe you guys know maybe you dont but theres a community dedicated to living healthy sexual lives which involves giving up bad addictions porn masturbation and orgasms is not how i view my level 50 status. My high level self embraces intimacy with a woman I respect love and care for. No need to exhaust my lifeforce into a towel

 

2. Adventure more: self explanatory I am tired and staring my apartment walls

 

3.Attract my tribe: have more of a social life and be out in the world experiencing life with awesome people

 

4. Live in love: sometimes I get trapped up in a pessimistic mindset and judge others, I would rather use that energy to uplift and inspire.

 

5. Compete in something: I have a warrior's heart, since I was little I loved battling something (most of the time it was myself) however, I want to get in the ring with someone

 

6.Nature is my friend: Trees and parks and trails make my soul sing.

 

7.Enter abundance: build my business, travel the world, enter financial independence and create my own income by helping and inspiring others to eat less meat and dairy and pick up healthy habits.

 

Love, Love, Love.

 

Have a beautiful day

[Bean Sidhe]

Welcome

That is a good list of goals. What are you thinking of that you would like to start competing in?

 

[HappyDragon]

Esiege, your item no 1. is intriguing to me. I have seen the nofap community before, but wrote it off as a curiosity. Reading your post now however, I see it in a different light. My future level 50 self does not seem like someone who would spend hours every week looking at porn. Definitely something to consider for my future quests/challenges as well.

 

Thanks for the inspiration and good luck with leveling up!

[kevlar_from_kanada]

Welcome Esiege,

 

That is a well motivated list of goals.  I am a 31 y/o male professional male and some of my goals/ambitions seem to line up with yours.  One thing I would say (which maybe Bean is getting at?) is that you may want to tell us some measurable intermediate goals to help you along the way.  I remember I promised myself I would join an intramural league even though I didn't know a soul.  I did it and my social life improved (maybe kill 2 birds with one stone!).  

 

I am jealous that you know your way around a gym.  The cool thing about committing to personal growth is that it gets you out of your comfort zone.  Best of luck bud.