bzald Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 I dont know where to begin, i suppose i will start with a woman (i know i know it always starts with a woman huh =P) this woman for as long as i can remember has been a source of strength and love for me. About 4 years ago she developed cancer in her lungs after treatment things seem to of improved flashfoward to 4 months ago she had another sizer this time when we took her to the hospital it was cancer spots on the brain.Well that was treated, but some how she ended up with a olser in the stomach area, they had to do emergcey treatment, so she was sent to a rehab place for a few weeks then she came home. Well once home her body seem to shut down she is still with us we have a doctor coming monday but we just dont know, it scary not so much loosing her, I know all things must die but to loose her in such a way and so fast that it is unreal.Anyways thank you for reading, I was not really sure why i posted maybe just to write it out, I'm not even sure if this is the right place to put it but thanks Steve ​Picture unavailableMissing: Last seen Trying to kill her boyfriend while mumbling something about loving her boyfriend while holding her head saying “MAKE IT STOP!!!â€If you have Seen her plz check out my facebook account for update to the upcoming kickstarter for the book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bzsteve Link to comment
Knightwatch Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 I'm so sorry. You and your family will surely be in my thoughts and prayers. If there's anything we can do, please let me know. "The world will never starve for want of wonders, but for want of wonder." --GK Chesterton Domine, non sum dignus ut intres sub tectum meum, sed tantum dic verbo et sanabitur anima mea... http://www.facebook.com/#!/jbaileysewell Link to comment
leadchipmunk Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 Steve, I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope everything passes as well as it can. If you ever need to talk, rant or just get it all out, feel free to hit up here, the chats (there's usually someone there) or you can PM me and we can find a way to talk.As Knightwatch said, if there's anything we can do, don't hesitate to let us know. Level 1 Woodwose STR 5 | DEX 2 | STA 1 | CON 2 | WIS 5 | CHA 4 WAR 0 | RNG 0 | SCT 0 | ASN 0 | MON 0 | DRU 0 | ADV 1 Current Challenge: Specialization is for Insects Previous Chapters: 1 Link to comment
--- Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 Allow me to add my condolences and voice of support. You are in my thoughts! Link to comment
Porta Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 Thats tough, my thoughts are with you. Link to comment
Raikas Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 That's so rough. Best thoughts. Wood Elf Assassin -- Level 10 --STR 26 | DEX 13 | STA 19 | CON 7 | WIS 14 | CHA 14 Link to comment
Thilde Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 What a difficult time for you and your family; sending thoughts of peace your way. I second all the posts above, feel free to post again, PM us, or chat if you need to talk. There are always people around here to lend a listening ear. Link to comment
Kishi Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 That sucks, dude. I've seen what cancer can do to a person. If you need anything, and if we can do anything, let us know. Work like a farmer, train like an athlete, fight like a soldier. 2 Tim. 2:3-6 BATTLE! Link to comment
ponita Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 My prayers are with you and your family. You have all of our support and please use this forum as a safe place to rant and unload. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Level 1 Amazon Adventurer My Intro |Current Challenge|Battle Log "The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated" - Mahatma Gandhi Link to comment
bzald Posted August 25, 2012 Author Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 thanks this means a lot to the family, the worst part is the sudden fast decline ​Picture unavailableMissing: Last seen Trying to kill her boyfriend while mumbling something about loving her boyfriend while holding her head saying “MAKE IT STOP!!!â€If you have Seen her plz check out my facebook account for update to the upcoming kickstarter for the book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bzsteve Link to comment
Heather D. Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 So sorry to hear that. I've been through the same thing, and know how dumbfounding it can be. Twitter | FB | Instagram Link to comment
Evicious Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 Strength to you and your family in this difficult time. Evicious, Khajjit Ranger STR 7 | DEX 13 | STA 3 | CON 6 | WIS 16 | CHA 4 Current 4WC: Evicious: The Unburdening II + Blitz Week! Fitocracy! I Play To Win! Keep up the momentum! Link to comment
WarriorAmy Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 Steve, I'm sorry. It's just not fair. WarriorAmy{Insert motivational script here}STR - 4|DEX - 2|STA - 6|CON - 4 |WIS - 6|CHA- 5 Link to comment
Haikoo Posted August 25, 2012 Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 I'm so sorry you are dealing with this Sudden losses can be so difficult to work through. STR 7.2 | DEX 3.5 | STA 5.8 | CON 8.4 | WIS 5.55 | CHA 5.5 Most Recent Challenge Link to comment
bzald Posted August 25, 2012 Author Report Share Posted August 25, 2012 yea i can not belive how much of a decline, one day it seems she was reading she loves to read and the next she can barely keep her head up oh and before i forget thank you for all the you just let us know what you need. Right now there nothing that really jumps out at me at lest nothing i can think of ​Picture unavailableMissing: Last seen Trying to kill her boyfriend while mumbling something about loving her boyfriend while holding her head saying “MAKE IT STOP!!!â€If you have Seen her plz check out my facebook account for update to the upcoming kickstarter for the book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bzsteve Link to comment
bzald Posted August 27, 2012 Author Report Share Posted August 27, 2012 I'm not sure what is going to happen BUT I will say this I'm going to turn this into a driving positive force in my life no matter the outcome, because no one should have to be like that. No one should have to see a family member like that either. ​Picture unavailableMissing: Last seen Trying to kill her boyfriend while mumbling something about loving her boyfriend while holding her head saying “MAKE IT STOP!!!â€If you have Seen her plz check out my facebook account for update to the upcoming kickstarter for the book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bzsteve Link to comment
Tanktimus the Encourager Posted August 27, 2012 Report Share Posted August 27, 2012 That's terrible. There are no words of comfort in times like this other than I'm sorry and I'm here. God Bless, you and yours are in my prayers. Current Challenge "By the Most-Righteous-and-Blessed Beard of Sir Tanktimus the Encourager!" - Jarl Rurik Harrgath Link to comment
Warwolf Posted August 27, 2012 Report Share Posted August 27, 2012 I'm so sorry, Steve. I'll be sending positive energy to you and your family. Hang in there, we're here for you. The body is just a vehicle for the soul...I wanna build a racecar! LV. 4 Lycan Assassin STR: 7 STA: 10CON: 8.25 WIS: 5CHA: 4.5 DEX: 3.50 Past Challenges: {1} {2} {3} Link to comment
caponerd48 Posted August 27, 2012 Report Share Posted August 27, 2012 I am so sorry to hear that. you and your family are in my prayers. Outlaw Monk "We have done the impossible and that makes us mighty" - Cpt. Malcolm Reynolds (Firefly) My Mighty Quest! STR 9.1 - DEX 9.6 - STA 5.6 - CON 7 - WIS 12 -CHA 8 Link to comment
RandomWanderer Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 I dont know where to begin, i suppose i will start with a woman (i know i know it always starts with a woman huh =P) this woman for as long as i can remember has been a source of strength and love for me. About 4 years ago she developed cancer in her lungs after treatment things seem to of improved flashfoward to 4 months ago she had another sizer this time when we took her to the hospital it was cancer spots on the brain.Well that was treated, but some how she ended up with a olser in the stomach area, they had to do emergcey treatment, so she was sent to a rehab place for a few weeks then she came home. Well once home her body seem to shut down she is still with us we have a doctor coming monday but we just dont know, it scary not so much loosing her, I know all things must die but to loose her in such a way and so fast that it is unreal.Anyways thank you for reading, I was not really sure why i posted maybe just to write it out, I'm not even sure if this is the right place to put it but thanks SteveMy wife died of cancer 7 years ago this November. It was quite a journey for 3 years being her caregiver through many kemos, stem cell transplant, bone marrow transplant etc. It's not an easy thing to be there for someone on their journey through such trials. You posted here because you know this is a family and we band together through thick and thin. We are here as those who can listen and be empathetic. feel free to shoot me a message any time you want. Assassin: Rank: 6 (Disciple) STR: 10 DEX: 20 STA: 7 CON: 6 WIS: 6 CHA: 5[sIGPIC][/sIGPIC]"Though one may conquer a thousand times a thousand men in battle, yet he indeed is the noblest victor who conquers himself." - BuddhaHeight: 5'9" Weight: 215lbs Age: 34|RW's Chronicle(log)| RW's Introduction|Fitocracy|Challenge| Link to comment
ponita Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 bzald, I wanted to check in to see how you are doing. Please know that you have our utmost support.RW, I'm so sorry about your loss and your wife's battle. We're here for you too, man. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Level 1 Amazon Adventurer My Intro |Current Challenge|Battle Log "The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated" - Mahatma Gandhi Link to comment
bzald Posted September 4, 2012 Author Report Share Posted September 4, 2012 thank you all ​Picture unavailableMissing: Last seen Trying to kill her boyfriend while mumbling something about loving her boyfriend while holding her head saying “MAKE IT STOP!!!â€If you have Seen her plz check out my facebook account for update to the upcoming kickstarter for the book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bzsteve Link to comment
bzald Posted September 5, 2012 Author Report Share Posted September 5, 2012 My mom Rest in peace 2012 ​Picture unavailableMissing: Last seen Trying to kill her boyfriend while mumbling something about loving her boyfriend while holding her head saying “MAKE IT STOP!!!â€If you have Seen her plz check out my facebook account for update to the upcoming kickstarter for the book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bzsteve Link to comment
Elastigirl Posted September 5, 2012 Report Share Posted September 5, 2012 My mom Rest in peace 2012Sorry for yor loss. My mom passed away in Feb. of this year. I miss her every day. But all that she gave me in her wisdom,encouragement, and laughter stays with me. Wisdom 22.5 Dexterity 13 Charisma 15 Strength 21 Constitution-13 "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind' Luke 10; 27 Link to comment
ponita Posted September 5, 2012 Report Share Posted September 5, 2012 I'm so terribly sorry, bzald. My prayers are with you and your family. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Level 1 Amazon Adventurer My Intro |Current Challenge|Battle Log "The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated" - Mahatma Gandhi Link to comment
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