Red1263 Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 i guess this is where i have to follow my own men's challenge advice huh? *sigh*I like how Snake is the one that suggested this whole thing, and is the one resisting now Your Challenge! Be a Man and Ask that lovely girl out for a date! Level 25 Final Fantasy Rebel My Epic Quest | My Journey | Currently on the Trial of Orthos Str: 60 | Dex: 23 | Sta: 66 | Con: 28 | Wis: 55 | Cha: 14 Goals for 2021: Spoiler Build my brother a Destiny 2 Lamp Learn how to do a Handstand Play 1 song on the acoustic guitar Clean up the Christmas Decorations and finish setting up my apartment (hang things up, plus some other few things that need to be organized) Re-introduce Pull-ups into my routine Build a shelving unit next to my Desk "No matter what, if you can hold your head up high, you've done the right thing." "When you stand with your family, your family stands with you." "Write what needs to be written." Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 I'm not resisting. Just don't want to go out asking every randombpretty girl I see. That would be stupid and wouldn't exactly make it meaningful. I want to he sure that I myself have any real interest before I do something stupid. Lol Link to comment
leadchipmunk Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 We are only doing as you asked.we all badger each other until we grow the balls to say something.You just happened to be the first one to fall into the role of badgered. We all (hopefully) will be in the same place as you soon enough. Level 1 Woodwose STR 5 | DEX 2 | STA 1 | CON 2 | WIS 5 | CHA 4 WAR 0 | RNG 0 | SCT 0 | ASN 0 | MON 0 | DRU 0 | ADV 1 Current Challenge: Specialization is for Insects Previous Chapters: 1 Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 Let me out it this way. I will say something if/when I decide I've got enough interest in her to do so. Link to comment
leadchipmunk Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I'm a lenient guy. If you promise you will act on it when you decide you are interested enough, it is a deal with me. Level 1 Woodwose STR 5 | DEX 2 | STA 1 | CON 2 | WIS 5 | CHA 4 WAR 0 | RNG 0 | SCT 0 | ASN 0 | MON 0 | DRU 0 | ADV 1 Current Challenge: Specialization is for Insects Previous Chapters: 1 Link to comment
Guest Gemeaux Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I'm a woman and I'm writing here , sue me Bruce , she's keen ! And you might miss out on a great girl . Take a risk mate . Link to comment
Jcannon98188 Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I'm a woman and I'm writing here , sue me Bruce , she's keen ! And you might miss out on a great girl . Take a risk mate .GIRL!!!! GIRL IN THE MAN POST!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
WizardTrip Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I'm a woman and I'm writing here , sue me Bruce , she's keen ! And you might miss out on a great girl . Take a risk mate .No need to sue.....welcome!Now, Bruce, allow me to translate what Gem said. Pulled from Aussie-Info.com (http://www.aussie-info.com/identity/language/)."keen - very interested" Level 6 Wizard of Beer Warrior STR 21.25 | DEX 5.75 | STA 7.75 | CON 3.50 | WIS 9.50 | CHA 3.25 Twitter | Epic Trip | Current Challenge Previous Challenges: 1 2 3 4 5 *the warrior formerly known as icedtrip and former dothraki god of thunder furyan* Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 No need to sue.....welcome!Now, Bruce, allow me to translate what Gem said. Pulled from Aussie-Info.com (http://www.aussie-info.com/identity/language/)."keen - very interested"i'm not sure there is enough evidence to prove such a claim. again. she could just be very friendly. one thing i have heard and this is what has me thinking she is, is that if you engage her and she engages back then she is intersted. in this case the walking away and me saying something and sturned around and came back. so...yeah i dunno. but again she could just have been being nice. some people are still nice. even though some say my hair cut is disgusting. lol Link to comment
The Tin Man Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 i'm not sure there is enough evidence to prove such a claim. again. she could just be very friendly. one thing i have heard and this is what has me thinking she is, is that if you engage her and she engages back then she is intersted. in this case the walking away and me saying something and sturned around and came back. so...yeah i dunno. but again she could just have been being nice. some people are still nice. even though some say my hair cut is disgusting. lolI understand you there, Bruce McClain. From the other stuff I agree it sounds like she's interested but I was wary about posting "she asked you what you're up to this weekend, go for it!" because I ask my coworkers their plans for the weekend all the time. The Tin Man: Cyborg Ranger Tin Man's Out of Date Epic Quest I am what I do. Link to comment
rtalencar Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 i'm not sure there is enough evidence to prove such a claim. again. she could just be very friendly. one thing i have heard and this is what has me thinking she is, is that if you engage her and she engages back then she is intersted. in this case the walking away and me saying something and sturned around and came back. so...yeah i dunno. but again she could just have been being nice. some people are still nice. even though some say my hair cut is disgusting. lolHer just being nice doesn't preclude you from asking her out, so long as it's in a polite and respectful manner. IDDQD [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Current Challenge Race: MALIETOA Class: WARRIOR STR: 4 | DEX: 1 | STA: 1 | CON: 3 | WIS: 2 | CHA: 4 Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 but I was wary about posting "she asked you what you're up to this weekend, go for it!" because I ask my coworkers their plans for the weekend all the time.EXACTLY! Link to comment
morethanjustamom Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I understand you there, Bruce McClain. From the other stuff I agree it sounds like she's interested but I was wary about posting "she asked you what you're up to this weekend, go for it!" because I ask my coworkers their plans for the weekend all the time.*Entering briefly* It doesn't count when you're a guy asking this question. My husband asks his co-workers what they're weekend plans are every single week. That doesn't mean he's asking all the ladies out, or giving anyone an 'open'. It only counts if a girl asks it, because girls tend to play things like that closer. A girl isn't going to ask a single guy what his plans are, unless she's fully prepared to be asked out by said guy. We know that's a risk we take by asking...so it's done on purpose, I swear. But only by girls. *Leaving now* The old believe everything; the middle aged suspect everything: the young know everything. ~Oscar Wilde Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 *Entering briefly* It doesn't count when you're a guy asking this question. My husband asks his co-workers what they're weekend plans are every single week. That doesn't mean he's asking all the ladies out, or giving anyone an 'open'. It only counts if a girl asks it, because girls tend to play things like that closer. A girl isn't going to ask a single guy what his plans are, unless she's fully prepared to be asked out by said guy. We know that's a risk we take by asking...so it's done on purpose, I swear. But only by girls. *Leaving now*Even though I have no basis to stand on with my next sentence i'm going to say it anyway. I'm not sure I agree. It just seems random that she would say that. and she doesn't know I'm single. or...rather i have not said i was. Link to comment
So Late So Soon Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 Just ask her out Well I guess it's only life, it's only natural We all spend a little while going down the rabbit hole Link to comment
morethanjustamom Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 Even though I have no basis to stand on with my next sentence i'm going to say it anyway. I'm not sure I agree. It just seems random that she would say that. and she doesn't know I'm single. or...rather i have not said i was.If you're not wearing a wedding ring and you didn't mention "wife" or "girlfriend" in your conversation with her, she's assuming you're single. The old believe everything; the middle aged suspect everything: the young know everything. ~Oscar Wilde Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 Just ask her outlol. as said before. when i'm sure that i have sufficient interest i will. even if i'm not sure she does or not. Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 If you're not wearing a wedding ring and you didn't mention "wife" or "girlfriend" in your conversation with her, she's assuming you're single.that and she did ask what my plans were and i said nothing...if i were with someone i would probably have plans for said weekend huh? duh! i'm stupid. Link to comment
morethanjustamom Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 that and she did ask what my plans were and i said nothing...if i were with someone i would probably have plans for said weekend huh? duh! i'm stupid.Not stupid, you just need to get out of your own way!! The old believe everything; the middle aged suspect everything: the young know everything. ~Oscar Wilde Link to comment
rtalencar Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 that and she did ask what my plans were and i said nothing...if i were with someone i would probably have plans for said weekend huh? duh! i'm stupid.Not stupid, just missed a potential opportunity. There will be others, take advantage of the next one! IDDQD [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Current Challenge Race: MALIETOA Class: WARRIOR STR: 4 | DEX: 1 | STA: 1 | CON: 3 | WIS: 2 | CHA: 4 Link to comment
aj_rock Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I think it's fair to say that if you aren't sure if you like her, taking her on a date is a good way to find out.I'm sure you want us to get off your case, but your 'reasons' for not asking her out are extremely similar to the cop-outs I've been given by other buddies of mine for why they didn't make a move.Do these sound familiar?"But I interact with her on the regular! It will make things weird!""Oh, that obvious show of flirtfull intent or pointed question? Naw, can't be. How can I ever be sure?""Get off my back, I'll ask when I'm damn well ready"Not tryin to bust your balls mate, but I hear all this and more any time I talk to a guy getting cold feet about a potential female. Risk/Reward analysis says you have so much more to gain by asking her, even if she says no /end 0.02c Why must I put a name on the foods I choose to eat and how I choose to eat them? Rather than tell people that I eat according to someone else's arbitrary rules, I'd rather just tell them, I eat healthy. And no, my diet does not have a name.My daily battle log! Link to comment
161803398874989 Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I think it's fair to say that if you aren't sure if you like her, taking her on a date is a good way to find out.I'm sure you want us to get off your case, but your 'reasons' for not asking her out are extremely similar to the cop-outs I've been given by other buddies of mine for why they didn't make a move.Do these sound familiar?"But I interact with her on the regular! It will make things weird!""Oh, that obvious show of flirtfull intent or pointed question? Naw, can't be. How can I ever be sure?""Get off my back, I'll ask when I'm damn well ready"Not tryin to bust your balls mate, but I hear all this and more any time I talk to a guy getting cold feet about a potential female. Risk/Reward analysis says you have so much more to gain by asking her, even if she says no /end 0.02cTHIS. Quare? Quod vita mea non tua est. You can call me Phi, Numbers, Sixteen or just plain 161803398874989. Link to comment
Jcannon98188 Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 Not that I mind the girls posting here, because I really dont. But I love how the girls are all like "leaving now" and then come back Girl, since you are reading this, can you do us all a favor. Please realize guys are oblivious sometimes, especially nerd guys, and just be straight forward Link to comment
Guest Snake McClain Posted May 25, 2012 Report Share Posted May 25, 2012 I think it's fair to say that if you aren't sure if you like her, taking her on a date is a good way to find out.I'm sure you want us to get off your case, but your 'reasons' for not asking her out are extremely similar to the cop-outs I've been given by other buddies of mine for why they didn't make a move.Do these sound familiar?"But I interact with her on the regular! It will make things weird!""Oh, that obvious show of flirtfull intent or pointed question? Naw, can't be. How can I ever be sure?""Get off my back, I'll ask when I'm damn well ready"Not tryin to bust your balls mate, but I hear all this and more any time I talk to a guy getting cold feet about a potential female. Risk/Reward analysis says you have so much more to gain by asking her, even if she says no /end 0.02cfair enough. i plan to chat her up and see maybe ask her to go out when i see her next. there! happy? Geez! The earliest i will see her is tuesday. so let's all just be patient yeah? lolNot that I mind the girls posting here, because I really dont. But I love how the girls are all like "leaving now" and then come back Girl, since you are reading this, can you do us all a favor. Please realize guys are oblivious sometimes, especially nerd guys, and just be straight forward ^seriously. so true. all of it. I don't care that the women of nerdfitness read and chime in as long as it isn't on a subject that any of us are sensitive on. peenor things and such. Link to comment
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