GreenEyesBright Posted March 25, 2012 Report Share Posted March 25, 2012 Oh f that. There are exceptions to the rules but this isn't one of them. Don't reply and don't go. Do get out of town with your man and go on vacation already. He doesn't deserve your thoughts much less a comment on facebook. Delete him out of your life. Sent from my MB860 using Tapatalk Quote Wake Your Dreams... Link to comment
Gainsdalf the Whey Posted March 25, 2012 Report Share Posted March 25, 2012 Yeah, I wouldn't even respond to a douche like that. Quote Massrandir, Barkûn, Swolórin, The Whey Pilgrim 500 / 330 / 625 Challenges: 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 31 32 34 35 36 39 41 42 45 46 47 48 49 Current Challenge "No citizen has a right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. What a disgrace it is for a man to grow old without ever seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable. " ~ Socrates "Friends don't let friends squat high." ~ Chad Wesley Smith "It's a dangerous business, Brodo, squatting to the floor. You step into the rack, and if you don't keep your form, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to." ~ Gainsdalf Link to comment
Arashi Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 Ok background info:We were together about a year, end of high school through first year of college. I found out he had been cheating on me almost every weekend with a number of different girls....yeah I wasn't sticking around. I didn't go as crazy on him as others--it was more of a "yeah, goodbye." He was much more upset than I was and would frequently text/call/etc. and I just ignored him. That summer I spontaneously studied abroad and met my "rebound" who I've been with for almost four years now, and we've discussed marriage but we're currently long distance and it's just not the right time for either of us. Edit: We weren't always long distance, he was actually a student studying abroad in the same program as me, so we were together about 3 years before he moved across the country but we decided to stay together. About two years ago I ran into him and he said he was single and not ready to be "tied down to any dumb girls" and dating me was the "biggest mistake." I just laughed and said something like "good to see you."Oh God, how old is this guy, 12? What a moron. Quote Link to comment
tonyfoto Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 Send him a Skrillex CD as a wedding gift. Douche Bags love that crap. Quote Transformassacre Challenge Current Goal: Weigh in at 200lbs or lower by May 2nd Current Specs: 205lbs, ?? body fat (April 12th 2012) Long term Goal: -Meet a body fat percentage of 10% or lower by Sept 1st -Be able to finish Tough Mudder on Sept 8th Link to comment
GreenEyesBright Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 This is when you send him weird fetish dvds involving latex and other interesting objects with a sweet note: "Was cleaning out my garage and found your collection. Just thought you'd like em back now that you're getting married and will have use for them." But thats just me being evil. Sent from my MB860 using Tapatalk Quote Wake Your Dreams... Link to comment
WizardTrip Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 Ok background info:We were together about a year, end of high school through first year of college. I found out he had been cheating on me almost every weekend with a number of different girls....yeah I wasn't sticking around. I didn't go as crazy on him as others--it was more of a "yeah, goodbye." He was much more upset than I was and would frequently text/call/etc. and I just ignored him. That summer I spontaneously studied abroad and met my "rebound" who I've been with for almost four years now, and we've discussed marriage but we're currently long distance and it's just not the right time for either of us. Edit: We weren't always long distance, he was actually a student studying abroad in the same program as me, so we were together about 3 years before he moved across the country but we decided to stay together. About two years ago I ran into him and he said he was single and not ready to be "tied down to any dumb girls" and dating me was the "biggest mistake." I just laughed and said something like "good to see you."I was about to respond with what Corey did ("depends on your current relationship with him"), then I read this. WOW! So I've attended at least 2 ex's weddings (and DJ'ed one of them), but in your case, there is no need to even respond giving him the satisfaction of getting a response from you. Quote Level 6 Wizard of Beer Warrior STR 21.25 | DEX 5.75 | STA 7.75 | CON 3.50 | WIS 9.50 | CHA 3.25 Twitter | Epic Trip | Current Challenge Previous Challenges: 1 2 3 4 5 *the warrior formerly known as icedtrip and former dothraki god of thunder furyan* Link to comment
KillerGriller Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 Ok background info:We were together about a year, end of high school through first year of college. I found out he had been cheating on me almost every weekend with a number of different girls....yeah I wasn't sticking around. I didn't go as crazy on him as others--it was more of a "yeah, goodbye." He was much more upset than I was and would frequently text/call/etc. and I just ignored him. That summer I spontaneously studied abroad and met my "rebound" who I've been with for almost four years now, and we've discussed marriage but we're currently long distance and it's just not the right time for either of us. Edit: We weren't always long distance, he was actually a student studying abroad in the same program as me, so we were together about 3 years before he moved across the country but we decided to stay together. About two years ago I ran into him and he said he was single and not ready to be "tied down to any dumb girls" and dating me was the "biggest mistake." I just laughed and said something like "good to see you."Alarm bells all over this: he seems like a man-child (got upset when you left but couldn't be faithful, pissy when you met again) "I want what I want, and I want it now!". Tell him to take an effin' hike, who needs that drama in their life. You seem happy, don't let this douche pollute it. Quote Scout: STR: 20.5 | DEX: 13 | STA: 28 | CON: 13.5 | WIS: 8 | CHA: 4http://51feetunder.wordpress.com/ - Running, Rock & Roll, Rock Climbing and PhotographyFitocracy ProfileTwitter Latest Challenge Link to comment
Rosie Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 I'm with the others. Politely decline (you don't want to come off as the immature one when he's already shown that's what he's being), make plans to do something more fun and don't give it a second thought on the day. It sounds like he's being a total ass in a "look what you could have had" kind of way. I do feel sorry for the girl he's marrying though - pre-occupied with trying to make his ex jealous when he should be concentrating on his fiancé. How special she must feel! Quote [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Twitter Blog Attributes: Strength (STR): 3 Dexterity (DEX): 1 Stamina (STA): 4 Constitution (CON): 2 Wisdom (WIS): 3 Charisma (CHA): 2 Link to comment
AKLulu Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 Yeah, this guy sounds like he's totally not worth paying attention to. I think it depends on the relationship though. I'm really good friends with a couple of my exes and probably keep in touch with them better than I do with a lot of my other friends. They even talk to me/ email me when they need relationship advice or just an ear to talk into. If I'm still good friends with them when/if I get married, I'll probably send them invites. I would understand if they didn't want to come, but they ARE my friends, so I would hope that they could be happy for me, just as I'm happy for them whenever they find somebody wonderful to date. I hope the best for them... and would be a little offended if they didn't at least tell me they were getting married. Quote Lulu : one that is remarkable or wonderful (it's in the dictionary, it must be true) Battle Log | Pinterest | Twitter | Instagram Link to comment
Fink Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 At something like this I would try to suggest taking the high road, but he sounds like a giant douche nozzle sooooooo send a decline with a divorce lawyers business card in the envelope Quote Link to comment
Arashi Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 I wonder if the poor bride knows about him trying to play games with you... I'd be furious. Quote Link to comment
The Tin Man Posted March 26, 2012 Report Share Posted March 26, 2012 Ok background info:We were together about a year, end of high school through first year of college. I found out he had been cheating on me almost every weekend with a number of different girls....yeah I wasn't sticking around. I didn't go as crazy on him as others--it was more of a "yeah, goodbye." He was much more upset than I was and would frequently text/call/etc. and I just ignored him. ...About two years ago I ran into him and he said he was single and not ready to be "tied down to any dumb girls" and dating me was the "biggest mistake." I just laughed and said something like "good to see you."Based on this: politely decline, but understand you may not get an invite to his next wedding. What a tool. Quote The Tin Man: Cyborg Ranger Tin Man's Out of Date Epic Quest I am what I do. Link to comment
GreenEyesBright Posted March 27, 2012 Report Share Posted March 27, 2012 Oh she will Especially if she doesn't respond to that invite. Go Big or Go Home! Sent from my Atrix using Tapatalk. Quote Wake Your Dreams... Link to comment
Deanna Posted March 27, 2012 Report Share Posted March 27, 2012 Yah. F that. Quote In training to be awesome! Link to comment
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