BeautifulBeast Posted June 10, 2014 Report Share Posted June 10, 2014 I like "Barsexual" myself, but it offends some at times.Lol I had never heard that term before. In my defense I've never made out with (or anything more) a girl at a bar. I'm not a pda person. I'm physically attracted to women (I mean we're soft and pretty how could I NOT be ha!) But almost every experience I've had emotionally with a woman has been negative so it's REALLY hard for me to bond and form a healthy relationship with another female. Doesn't help that for the last two years I've watched my husband get attached to girl after girl and get hurt over and over. Kind of reinforces my instincts to play but not get serious theory. Makes having friends a bitch though! 1 Quote Level 10 Wandering Nord Constitution: 15.5 Strength: 14 Wisdom: 17.5 Stamina: 12.25 Dexterity: 2 Charisma: 8Current Challenge: Picking Up The Pieces Link to comment
Artinum Posted June 10, 2014 Report Share Posted June 10, 2014 Bisexuals are attracted to men and women. It's usually a bit more complicated when someone doesn't fall into either category.Pansexuals are attracted to cooking utensils. Or is that fryingpansexuals? 5 Quote What happens when you play Final Fantasy VII with everyone called Cloud? It gets quite confusing... https://ff7crowdofclouds.wordpress.com/ Link to comment
fleaball Posted June 10, 2014 Report Share Posted June 10, 2014 Thanks everyone for not yelling at me! I probably should have clarified that I was asking to figure out where I stand and not to question anyone else's preferences. I guess for now I'll just stick to "I like you, do you like me? Check Yes or No." 5 Quote Level 69 Battle Kitten Battle Log | Current Challenge MyFitnessPal | Fitbit | Duolingo Ici je vis la vie que j'ai choisie Je suis partie pour reconstruire ma vie C'est dit, c'est ainsi Link to comment
Bekah Posted June 10, 2014 Report Share Posted June 10, 2014 Thanks everyone for not yelling at me! I probably should have clarified that I was asking to figure out where I stand and not to question anyone else's preferences. I guess for now I'll just stick to "I like you, do you like me? Check Yes or No."Indeed 1 Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
Twilight Posted June 10, 2014 Report Share Posted June 10, 2014 Makes sense to me So where are you again? Toronto! Come to World Pride and I'll show you around! 3 Quote Link to comment
Hit Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 "I like you, do you like me? Check Yes or No."This is definitely the best way to do it, afterall just cos someone is "into" whichever category you place yourself in does not mean they are into you specifically. I like to stick to 'queer' as a catch all / who cares sort of response. Pansexuals are attracted to cooking utensils.does this explains my love of food? 2 Quote It's the moose on the inside that counts. Link to comment
fleaball Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 This is definitely the best way to do it, afterall just cos someone is "into" whichever category you place yourself in does not mean they are into you specifically. I like to stick to 'queer' as a catch all / who cares sort of response.True. I was thinking more along the lines of "If I say I'm X and I like you but you're not in that category am I lying/wrong/whatever?" I'm in a weird place where I don't care what the label is, I just wish I could find one that fit. Which makes no sense but that's how I roll. It's interesting that pretty much everyone had a different set of definitions. I feel like there's a research project buried in there somewhere. 1 Quote Level 69 Battle Kitten Battle Log | Current Challenge MyFitnessPal | Fitbit | Duolingo Ici je vis la vie que j'ai choisie Je suis partie pour reconstruire ma vie C'est dit, c'est ainsi Link to comment
Thrillho Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 This is definitely the best way to do it, afterall just cos someone is "into" whichever category you place yourself in does not mean they are into you specifically. LIES!!! ALL GAY MEN ARE INTO ME AND TRYING TO CONVERT ME! ... right? Fox News told me that... 7 Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Hit Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 You're the exception that proves the rule Thrillho. Quote It's the moose on the inside that counts. Link to comment
Thrillho Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 Yayyy! 1 Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Bekah Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 LIES!!! ALL GAY MEN ARE INTO ME AND TRYING TO CONVERT ME! ... right? Fox News told me that... It's true, they have even gotten doctors to participate in the conversion by initiating you with "prostate exams"!!!! *cough* conversion tactic *cough* because well, it would be horrible for a straight man to be an equal with another man that has different sexuality. Pfft. Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
Flex Luthor Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 LIES!!! ALL GAY MEN ARE INTO ME AND TRYING TO CONVERT ME! ... right? Fox News told me that... I hate to say it but I've had a number of gay men tell me that I was in denial and not straight. Not ALL but enough to where it's a definite trend. I just smile and tell them I was born this way and it's not a choice 7 Quote "I like you just the way you are" - Mr. Rogers In Br0din's name we gain. Link to comment
ColoQ Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I hate to say it but I've had a number of gay men tell me that I was in denial and not straight. Not ALL but enough to where it's a definite trend. I just smile and tell them I was born this way and it's not a choice Hah! thats a great response. I can relate. I've had a guy I just hooked up with tell me to leave my wife because I was obviously in denial. Quote ColoQ || Level: 0 Techno Troll || Assassin ========================= Current Challenge: 0 - V.2 Previous Challenges: , -------------------------------------------------- STR 0 || DEX 0 || STA 0 CON 0 || WIS 0 || CHA 0 -------------------------------------------------- Link to comment
Thrillho Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I hate to say it but I've had a number of gay men tell me that I was in denial and not straight. Not ALL but enough to where it's a definite trend. I just smile and tell them I was born this way and it's not a choice That's remarkably close-minded and intolerant of you. Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
FamilyBeer Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 Toronto! Come to World Pride and I'll show you around! There are 2 festivals in Toronto that I'd like to see, Carnival and the Pride parade, they look awesome! 1 Quote Challenge Logs: Current Challenge 3 2 1 Battlelog Origin of Name: FN: Julian -> Jules -> Family Jewels -> Family LN: Rickards = Canadian brand of Beer -> Beer Call me "FamilyBeer" (or just Jules) Link to comment
Bekah Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I just want to go to Canada period, its colder than here and I have never heard anything negative about it....well except that its full of Canadians, but that's a very subjective answer i like Canadians 2 Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
Twilight Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 The current government isn't all that peachy, but they hide it because the US is so much worse. They're incredibly sneaky. 3 Quote Link to comment
Thrillho Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 Yeah, Harper is... uhm... what's the word... "Fucking Evil", that's it. And the current educational dispute is "We're funnelling 7.5 billion into restructuring K-12 for work in coal and LNG, but we're still cutting teacher's pay", which is doing the right things for the most incredibly wrong reasons in the worst possible ways. 1 Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
FamilyBeer Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I just want to go to Canada period, its colder than here and I have never heard anything negative about it....well except that its full of Canadians, but that's a very subjective answer i like Canadians We won't hold your Florida status against you, come visit!! We met a Florida native on the cruise who couldn't live any further north because it's too cold; colder than 50F (10C), he doesn't venture outside. When we arrived in Canaveral on Jan 24, it was 55F early in the morning, cooler than I expected but we still walked the beach in shorts and short sleeves, by the afternoon, it had warmed to 75F and we were in heaven. We texted our sons from Puerto Rico; they told us it was -30C (-22F) at home and we told them it was +31C (88F) where we were, outside, drinking a beer (and Pina colada). 1 Quote Challenge Logs: Current Challenge 3 2 1 Battlelog Origin of Name: FN: Julian -> Jules -> Family Jewels -> Family LN: Rickards = Canadian brand of Beer -> Beer Call me "FamilyBeer" (or just Jules) Link to comment
Frost of the Gloaming Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 You don't have a Pride parade near you Bekah? Can I just say even asexual break ups fucking suck; none of the sex all of the same emotions. 1 Quote Between a rock and a hard place, use our finger nails to climb, it's all we know.......... Daily Mile Perfer et obdura: Dolor hic tibi proderit olim Link to comment
Twilight Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I bet, Frost. You ok? Quote Link to comment
BeautifulBeast Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 http://www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/lifestyle/true-believers-one-big-happy-poly-family-n127396Something that popped up in a FL group. I thought I'd share it here since there are a few poly people in this thread! Yay for positive media coverage :-) Quote Level 10 Wandering Nord Constitution: 15.5 Strength: 14 Wisdom: 17.5 Stamina: 12.25 Dexterity: 2 Charisma: 8Current Challenge: Picking Up The Pieces Link to comment
Frost of the Gloaming Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I'll be fine and it's been a long time coming :how I see things:With all the baby mama drama and other drama that is very prevalent at least in my area I don't see why people have a problem with polyamory. I mean seriously if a couple has no jealousy problems and can share love with multiple people and be in a strong loving familial relationship how is that worse than having 4 kids with 3 different women and not paying child support and/or having your kids see multiple boyfriends come in and out every night to the point that they think it's the norm. basically, sharing love bad, fucking everything everyone without consequence perfectly acceptable (as long as it's not gay sex lol) 4 Quote Between a rock and a hard place, use our finger nails to climb, it's all we know.......... Daily Mile Perfer et obdura: Dolor hic tibi proderit olim Link to comment
Teirin Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I'll be fine and it's been a long time coming :how I see things:With all the baby mama drama and other drama that is very prevalent at least in my area I don't see why people have a problem with polyamory. I mean seriously if a couple has no jealousy problems and can share love with multiple people and be in a strong loving familial relationship how is that worse than having 4 kids with 3 different women and not paying child support and/or having your kids see multiple boyfriends come in and out every night to the point that they think it's the norm. basically, sharing love bad, fucking everything everyone without consequence perfectly acceptable (as long as it's not gay sex lol) Glad you'll be fine but it's still tough to go through. Take care of yourself or let friends take care of you. Excellent summary. It does seem so. Quote Behave yourself, badly if necessary. Current Challenge Judo - Shodan My Character Link to comment
Bekah Posted June 11, 2014 Report Share Posted June 11, 2014 I'll be fine and it's been a long time coming :how I see things:With all the baby mama drama and other drama that is very prevalent at least in my area I don't see why people have a problem with polyamory. I mean seriously if a couple has no jealousy problems and can share love with multiple people and be in a strong loving familial relationship how is that worse than having 4 kids with 3 different women and not paying child support and/or having your kids see multiple boyfriends come in and out every night to the point that they think it's the norm. basically, sharing love bad, fucking everything everyone without consequence perfectly acceptable (as long as it's not gay sex lol)I'm sorry about the breakup but definitely agree with your summary. Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
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