Reluctant Amazon Posted January 16, 2014 Report Share Posted January 16, 2014 Really wish I gad a kid Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Thrillho Posted January 16, 2014 Report Share Posted January 16, 2014 Want one of mine? The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Artinum Posted January 16, 2014 Report Share Posted January 16, 2014 Really wish I had a kid http://www.oxfam.org.uk/shop/oxfam-unwrapped/animal-lovers/goat-ou8010ml?pscid=ps_ggl_Unwrapped+2014+-+BAU What happens when you play Final Fantasy VII with everyone called Cloud? It gets quite confusing... https://ff7crowdofclouds.wordpress.com/ Link to comment
Flex Luthor Posted January 16, 2014 Report Share Posted January 16, 2014 Let's not be all gloom and doom. Sex post kid(s) is different, and not to discount the physical changes, but (past the post partum phase) a large portion of it is mental and emotional. Infants are by definition needy people. Being around needy people is draining. The two of you are together for a reason and (hopefully) having a child was at least an agreed good thing, if not a planned thing. There is 1 or more additional people in the relationship now so it takes more effort and planning by the adults for ANYTHING (other than chaos) to happen. In short, it's time for both parties to grow up quite a bit, really consider each other's needs and to make plans to meet those needs. Physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. If you don't do some planning or exert some effort...well it won't be pretty. What that 'growing up' process looks like totally depends on the couple. Thank you Ross. Everyone else was only successful in making me never ever want to have children lol "I like you just the way you are" - Mr. Rogers In Br0din's name we gain. Link to comment
wildross Posted January 17, 2014 Report Share Posted January 17, 2014 Thank you Ross. Everyone else was only successful in making me never ever want to have children lolYou're welcome... Warriors don't count reps and sets. They count tons. My psychologist weighs 45 pounds, has an iron soul and sits on the end of a bar Tally Sheet for 2019 Encouragement for older members: Chronologically Blessed Group; Encouragement for newbie lifters: When we were weaker Link to comment
Frost of the Gloaming Posted January 17, 2014 Report Share Posted January 17, 2014 Yea there are other scarier reasons that sex gets put on a shelf; having kids is a blessing compared to those Between a rock and a hard place, use our finger nails to climb, it's all we know.......... Daily Mile Perfer et obdura: Dolor hic tibi proderit olim Link to comment
matty_mcfly Posted January 17, 2014 Report Share Posted January 17, 2014 Lmfao have to agree with Frost on that one. However, my girlfriend of 4 years and I are pretty much adopting her 15 month old nephew...so I'll better be able to chime in on the presence of a new little permanent roommate "I can. I will. I must." 3rd Challenge - The One Where I Pretend To Be a Strongman; Spoiler 2nd Challenge - The One Where I Pretend To Be a Triathlete; 1st Challenge - The One Where I Move North of Vag; My Daily Battle Log Link to comment
Flex Luthor Posted January 17, 2014 Report Share Posted January 17, 2014 Of course kids are a blessing and I do want kids some day. I was sorta joking. Some of the older guys acted like after kids it just stops completely lol "I like you just the way you are" - Mr. Rogers In Br0din's name we gain. Link to comment
Jittersthe.Clown Posted January 17, 2014 Report Share Posted January 17, 2014 They can, but they don't have to. There will be a great many factors with kids that will determine that, like how lightly they sleep and how ninja like they are walking down the hall... Fortunately, my kids sleep well and are as ninja as an Chris Farely when they're tired. 1 Level 2 Warforged Druid STR: 2, DEX: 1, STA: 3, CON: 3, WIS: 2, CHA: 3 "If these people tell this story to their children as they sleep; then maybe someday they'll see a hero is just a man who knows he is free." Good night and joy be to you all ~Jitters The. Clown Current Challange: New Challenges Ahead! Battle Log: Clowning around daily Past Challenges: Leveling Up PvP Jump Rope Boss Continue? System Failure Systems Online Calling Rush Confirm Reset Select World Select Difficulty, Select Character, Repairs, Press Start, First Timer, Jump Rope PVP Challenge Link to comment
Red1263 Posted January 18, 2014 Report Share Posted January 18, 2014 They can, but they don't have to. There will be a great many factors with kids that will determine that, like how lightly they sleep and how ninja like they are walking down the hall... Fortunately, my kids sleep well and are as ninja as an Chris Farely when they're tired. This reminds me of my nieces, and made me laugh out loud. Level 25 Final Fantasy Rebel My Epic Quest | My Journey | Currently on the Trial of Orthos Str: 60 | Dex: 23 | Sta: 66 | Con: 28 | Wis: 55 | Cha: 14 Goals for 2021: Spoiler Build my brother a Destiny 2 Lamp Learn how to do a Handstand Play 1 song on the acoustic guitar Clean up the Christmas Decorations and finish setting up my apartment (hang things up, plus some other few things that need to be organized) Re-introduce Pull-ups into my routine Build a shelving unit next to my Desk "No matter what, if you can hold your head up high, you've done the right thing." "When you stand with your family, your family stands with you." "Write what needs to be written." Link to comment
SteelShield Posted January 25, 2014 Report Share Posted January 25, 2014 Thank you Ross. Everyone else was only successful in making me never ever want to have children lolRight on. "Strong in purpose and strong in action; strong within and strong without; strong against foes that are seen and strong against foes that are unseen; all the way up and all the way down, all the way around and all the way through; first, last and always—strong!" Link to comment
Frost of the Gloaming Posted January 30, 2014 Report Share Posted January 30, 2014 I just have to say if you are only in the relationship for sex then it's really not a relationship that's going to last 2 Between a rock and a hard place, use our finger nails to climb, it's all we know.......... Daily Mile Perfer et obdura: Dolor hic tibi proderit olim Link to comment
Juni0r83 Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 I just have to say if you are only in the relationship for sex then it's really not a relationship that's going to lastAnd yet how many relationships like this result in children? An unfortunately large number. Just sayingSent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Dwarf Warrior I am today what I made myself yesterday, I will be tomorrow what I make of myself today. Current challenge: Juni0r83 works on his Schedule-Fu Previous challenge: Juni0r83 re-evaluates and refocuses Link to comment
Phytomancer Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Babies and sex... a poor student like me wouldn't be having any of those any time soon. Phytomancer and The Way of The South East Level: 8 STR 15 | DEX 6 | STA 9 | CON 9 | WIS 9 | CHA 7 Level 1: Evil Minion Training | Level 2: Spy of the Seven Kingdoms Level 3: Shrines of Viruna | Level 4: Impending Storm | Level 5: Respawns | Level 6: Green Villains Level7: Returns to Battle Spoiler Pushup: 11.2% 11.2% Green: 11.2% 11.2% Sweets: 11% 11% Link to comment
Frost of the Gloaming Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Ha, it's that type of thinking that can do you in; because all it takes is once and it's not all that uncommon for two study buddies to start "dating" and hook up. So stay on your guard and be prepared 1 Between a rock and a hard place, use our finger nails to climb, it's all we know.......... Daily Mile Perfer et obdura: Dolor hic tibi proderit olim Link to comment
Why not? Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Babies and sex... a poor student like me wouldn't be having any of those any time soon. That's a good thing, finish school first. Plenty of time for that later. Long Term Goals: Spoiler 200# 245# Snatch 300# Clean and Jerk 380# 465# Back Squat 450# 500# Deadlift Planche Human Flag Front Lever 285# Log Clean and Press 1k Row under 3:20 Back Flip Bodyweight Turkish Get-up For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for the present life and the life to come. 1 Timothy 4:8 Never compromise. Link to comment
Why not? Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Of course kids are a blessing and I do want kids some day. I was sorta joking. Some of the older guys acted like after kids it just stops completely lolIt definitely does for a couple months at least (medical reasons), but that's not a bad thing when you consider what your sleep patterns will be like during that time. Now granted, I've only been married for just under three years and we only have one kid, but we still manage to have regular sex, though it has been a bit less frequent the last couple weeks, due to the amount of work I've had. We generally have it 2-3 times per week, sometimes more. There is hope, young Simon Long Term Goals: Spoiler 200# 245# Snatch 300# Clean and Jerk 380# 465# Back Squat 450# 500# Deadlift Planche Human Flag Front Lever 285# Log Clean and Press 1k Row under 3:20 Back Flip Bodyweight Turkish Get-up For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for the present life and the life to come. 1 Timothy 4:8 Never compromise. Link to comment
Thrillho Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 But soon... you can do this with them! 1 The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Suited hippy Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Have you looked into the effects of weight lifting as children? I'm not an expert, and not sure at what weight you need to worry about it, or try to tell you how to raise your kids, I just remember in middle school we were told we should not lift heavy as it can effect our growth. Currently lost in Fitness. Link to comment
Suited hippy Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Also, that is just adorable. Currently lost in Fitness. Link to comment
Thrillho Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 No worries, I've done a lot of research. He's almost 12 years old, 95th percentile for height, 98th percentile for weight, and has lived most of his life with juvenile arthritis. He gets tired very easily, he can barely run, his co-ordination is terrible, but weight lifting has been an enormous benefit in giving him SOME exercise and some muscle development. Improving the muscles in his legs has greatly improved his mobility and his endurance. His rheumatologist signed off on everything, and has praised the improved muscle strength. 2 The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Phytomancer Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 That's a good thing, finish school first. Plenty of time for that later. I am a PhD student... I have finished many schools (also finished high school twice), but you have a point...Celibacy until 30 it is. *sigh* By the way, the kids are very adorable. Phytomancer and The Way of The South East Level: 8 STR 15 | DEX 6 | STA 9 | CON 9 | WIS 9 | CHA 7 Level 1: Evil Minion Training | Level 2: Spy of the Seven Kingdoms Level 3: Shrines of Viruna | Level 4: Impending Storm | Level 5: Respawns | Level 6: Green Villains Level7: Returns to Battle Spoiler Pushup: 11.2% 11.2% Green: 11.2% 11.2% Sweets: 11% 11% Link to comment
Suited hippy Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 No worries, I've done a lot of research. He's almost 12 years old, 95th percentile for height, 98th percentile for weight, and has lived most of his life with juvenile arthritis. He gets tired very easily, he can barely run, his co-ordination is terrible, but weight lifting has been an enormous benefit in giving him SOME exercise and some muscle development. Improving the muscles in his legs has greatly improved his mobility and his endurance. His rheumatologist signed off on everything, and has praised the improved muscle strength. Parenting done right: with research! 1 Currently lost in Fitness. Link to comment
Why not? Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Have you looked into the effects of weight lifting as children? I'm not an expert, and not sure at what weight you need to worry about it, or try to tell you how to raise your kids, I just remember in middle school we were told we should not lift heavy as it can effect our growth. My understanding is that it can damage bone endings, thereby stunting growth. Long Term Goals: Spoiler 200# 245# Snatch 300# Clean and Jerk 380# 465# Back Squat 450# 500# Deadlift Planche Human Flag Front Lever 285# Log Clean and Press 1k Row under 3:20 Back Flip Bodyweight Turkish Get-up For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for the present life and the life to come. 1 Timothy 4:8 Never compromise. Link to comment
Why not? Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 I am a PhD student... I have finished many schools (also finished high school twice), but you have a point...Celibacy until 30 it is. *sigh* By the way, the kids are very adorable.I meant the marriage and kids part, btw. Not necessarily the girlfriend portion. Long Term Goals: Spoiler 200# 245# Snatch 300# Clean and Jerk 380# 465# Back Squat 450# 500# Deadlift Planche Human Flag Front Lever 285# Log Clean and Press 1k Row under 3:20 Back Flip Bodyweight Turkish Get-up For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for the present life and the life to come. 1 Timothy 4:8 Never compromise. Link to comment
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