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Hello all!

 

This is Just Me. I'm nothing spectacular except to my 4 amazing kids and my hero. My husband was injured in Iraq in 2009 and I have been his caregiver since then. I have been feeling lost lately and just realized that I have no goals for myself, so here goes!

 

1. Lose weight (currently 5'9" and 275lbs)

2. Gain energy (4 kids and 2 dogs use up what little I wake up with)

3. Change our diet (I think a lot of my husband's injuries are being compounded by a food intollerence and too many random drugs from the VA)

4. Run in the Warrior Dash in March (Mud? FUN!)

 

I'm excited for the challenge and support!

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Howzit, Justme  :loyal: 

 

I think that your definition of "Spectacular" is not the same as mine  :sorrow: I think "Spectacular" when I read your post!

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You are your husband's caregiver AND you raise your four kids AND take care of your two dogs AND manage the household...that puts the rest of our efforts to shame! I can barely handle varsity :hopelessness:

 

What fitness and diet plan are you following? There are some great ones on this site!

 

Jacob O'Brien  :ghost: 

Eli and the Timeline of Growth

 

"Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you.

You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic." ~ Anaïs Nin

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How's it going along?

You have any plans on how you are tackling your goals?

 

That Warrior Dash sure looks like a loads of fun!

 

Maybe if you buy some vegetables you, your husband and/or your kids like,

wash and slice them and see if they get eaten?

 

How old are your kids? Do they in general like helping you?

"Look, mom, I washed/chopped this all by myself!"

"There is beauty in hardship / There are poems in grief" -Assemblage 23, Damaged

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