Thrillho Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 Ouch! I guess there are a few guys from my college days out there better off without dating me! My feeling is if a guy doesn't feel strong enough about me to try to "close the deal" and make a move, especially if there is other men vying for my attention and I had given him special attention, I was better off too. FWIW, I think my comment came out a little grumpier than intended, but all the same what's true for a lot of women is true for a lot of men: many of us want to feel that we're worth enough to be pursued. If we're already together, in a relationship, and you want us to "close the deal", then it's just like being one of any number of men standing in line waiting for a pass/fail grade. I'm all for following your bliss, but at some point your bliss has to look back and acknowledge you're there. Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Barfly Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 Ahhhhhh……….. No! They look like they are in pain or constipated, not appealing. I prefer the mischievous grin!Hehe Quote The past is only smoke in a dream. Lvl 6 Ranger Berzerker STR 9 DEX 4 STA 9 CON 8 WIS 2 CHA 8 Barfly ain't even tryin'... Link to comment
Liberator Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 FWIW, I think my comment came out a little grumpier than intended, but all the same what's true for a lot of women is true for a lot of men: many of us want to feel that we're worth enough to be pursued. If we're already together, in a relationship, and you want us to "close the deal", then it's just like being one of any number of men standing in line waiting for a pass/fail grade. I'm all for following your bliss, but at some point your bliss has to look back and acknowledge you're there. When I am talking about "closing the deal" I am referring to asking the person out or making a move to show you are interested, or taking the relationship to the next level. Knowing how to read a woman's signs and making the transition comfortable and natural is a skill. I think that is what hurts some men and is a great advantage to the others who know how. My husband was good at letting me know he wanted to date me but later we had a long distances relationship and I was pretty sure he was dating others. I had to let him go and date others for him to realize I wasn't going to wait around for him and he was letting a good thing go. He figured it out and "closed the deal" Quote Link to comment
Guzzi Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 Ladies, what's the verdict on the "squint face"Hmmm.... I'm kinda with Liberator on this one. I laugh and smile very easily, I find life fun and I enjoy, enjoying life. I think I prefer the same qualities in a guy. So I'm going with mischievous grin too. 2 Quote Make Life Rue The Day Turning back the clock Recipe book 14 Life is far too short to take seriously Link to comment
Bekah Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 ohhhh do I find that face attractive on a guy? hell no, he looks like he needs to take a shit and put on sunglasses. II think the attractive face on a guy is variable to each one. J looks so cute when he smiles at something he is happy about, but JJ looks equally cute with a smirky smile face, and some guys look most attractive with a serious face...so thats what I think 1 Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
Machete Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 1 Quote Valar Morghulis Halfling Monk, Chaotic Neutral Machete's Blog: Inside A Mad Mind Third World Warrior: The Eight-Year Training Log Link to comment
SevenofSeven Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 Ladies, what's the verdict on the "squint face"? Do they even lift? 4 Quote Wait! What............? Link to comment
Thrillho Posted April 21, 2014 Report Share Posted April 21, 2014 Does... does he know how shades work? Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Liberator Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 I am thinking more like this:] 1 Quote Link to comment
Bekah Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 mmmmm George Clooney and yes, that face looks good on them all Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
Liberator Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 mmmmm George Clooney and yes, that face looks good on them all Right! That barely contained smile and the thinking, knowing eyes! That gets my attention, like you are sharing a secret with a glance… 1 Quote Link to comment
IslandGirl_Becks Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 The Han solo smirk. It's the smiling eyes Sent from my Galaxy Nexus using Tapatalk Quote We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -Aristotle Arian, arian, zehetzen da burnia. -Basque proverb Frisian Shieldmaiden level 12 (STR:16) (DEX:16) (STA:23) (CON:22) (WIS:17) (CHA:15) Challenges: 11/12.14 - 1/2.15 - 2/3.15 - 15.4/5 - 15.6/7 - 15.7/9 - 16.1 - 16.3 - 16.4 - 16.5 - 16.10 - 16.11 - 16.12 - 17.1 - 17.2 2017 Goals: Maintain BW BS, 100kg DL - Muscle Up - 1/2 Marathon Condition - Abs Link to comment
SevenofSeven Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 Mmmmm, Eddie Vedder. Quote Wait! What............? Link to comment
Bearded_Dragon Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 Mmmmm, Eddie Vedder. I read that as Edible Vedder. I'm going back to bed. 4 Quote Link to comment
Oramac Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 I read that as Edible Vedder. I'm going back to bed. Lol. I read it as Eddie Vader. I probably need sleep too.... 2 Quote "Someone ever tries to kill you, you try to kill 'em right back." - Captain Malcolm Reynolds Current Challenge Also, I Agree With Tank™ Link to comment
insanity Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 Lol. I read it as Eddie Vader. I probably need sleep too....Nah... you seem to have an obsession with Vader... so you're good... 1 Quote "Insanity - you make my world a better place man, you really do! That shit is awesome! :D" - Guzzi- My first challenge My battle Log: Insanity: Warrior Monk Honorary Ranger dubbed by DarK_RaideR, 1000 Pound club (875 of 1000) Link to comment
Thrillho Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 Lol. I read it as Eddie Vader. I probably need sleep too....Hello, best cover band ever. 1 Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Nedwin Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 Let's just call it a draw at Edible Vader 1 Quote Level 2 Furyan Ranger You keep what you kill STR 3 | DEX 2 | STA 3 | CON 2 | WIS 2 | CHA 36.1 | 6.2 | Duolingo | Daily | Fitocracy Spoiler Captain Hammer: Have I seen you at the gym? Billy: [smiles] At the gym! Captain Hammer: [to himself] I don't go to the gym, I'm just naturally like this... Link to comment
Thrillho Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 5 Quote The cancer was aggressive, but the chemotherapy was aggressive, as well. There was aggression on both sides. Link to comment
Spark Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 5 Quote Level 10 Superhero Trainee (Ranger)Str 20 Dex 12 Sta 15 Con 15 Wis 13 Cha 16 My Battle Log: Getting Back on the HorseChallenges! 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10NerFiWriCh Completed: 1! My book! The Mercenary's Guide to Ruined Seattle. To all you saints and sinners!You losers and you winners!Here's to one more day above the roses! Link to comment
SevenofSeven Posted April 22, 2014 Report Share Posted April 22, 2014 Let's just call it a draw at Edible VaderEdible Vedder.......nom, nom, nom. Quote Wait! What............? Link to comment
Machete Posted April 23, 2014 Report Share Posted April 23, 2014 Well then, looks like I'm going to have to change my default face setting. Flirting Fascination Found this article earlier. Rather intriguing, however it makes me wonder if my inability to successfully flirt suggests that I am actually unfit to reproduce. I wish there was a way to decisively conclude this. Then I could just carry on with my life with no distractions, disregarding females and instead acquiring currency. Quote Valar Morghulis Halfling Monk, Chaotic Neutral Machete's Blog: Inside A Mad Mind Third World Warrior: The Eight-Year Training Log Link to comment
Bekah Posted April 23, 2014 Report Share Posted April 23, 2014 Well then, looks like I'm going to have to change my default face setting. Flirting Fascination Found this article earlier. Rather intriguing, however it makes me wonder if my inability to successfully flirt suggests that I am actually unfit to reproduce. I wish there was a way to decisively conclude this. Then I could just carry on with my life with no distractions, disregarding females and instead acquiring currency.having managed to achieve reproduction, and verifying my unfitness to do so, I can vouch for the reliability of the claim....so yeah, go for the loot Kids are overrated Quote Druid Assassin Halfling Druid Level 16, Current Quest: Bekah Returns Spoiler Fitbit Facebook Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change. - Jim Rohn Link to comment
Guzzi Posted April 23, 2014 Report Share Posted April 23, 2014 Flirting FascinationFound this article earlier. Rather intriguing, however it makes me wonder if my inability to successfully flirt suggests that I am actually unfit to reproduce.Yeah, I'm fucked then. I don't think I'm aware of any of that stuff. I mean, ridiculous OTT flirting (for comic effect) I can do, but the real stuff...? No, I don't get it. I've said it before and it's true. I've never been approached by a guy, never been asked "Can I buy you a drink?", never been asked out. I think/hope that's partly down to the fact that I just don't give off, read or respond to those signals. I mean, I'm obviously not as blind to them as Machete, but I think they'd have to be pretty blatant for me to pick them up. And even then.... The only thing I've got going in my favour according to that article is my waist:hip ratio, lol! Celebrate the win where you can girl. 1 Quote Make Life Rue The Day Turning back the clock Recipe book 14 Life is far too short to take seriously Link to comment
SevenofSeven Posted April 23, 2014 Report Share Posted April 23, 2014 Well Guzzi, don't think you are alone there.Believe it or not fellas, Sheila's are also thrown in the "friends" bin, they also find it hard to "close" and suffer from social awkwardness as well. You are not alone.With the above said and reading the article, I did go forth and multiply 7 times! In spite of my inadequacies. 2 Quote Wait! What............? Link to comment
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